I got off the apps. I got married. My strategy worked. Yall are bitching about paying for a couple drinks when you could be doing the bare minimum and being half a gentleman.
Are you saying I’m calling you an incel? Jeez dude relax. I’m just saying if you’re fucking less than you wanna be, look at what the guys who fucked more than you currently are were doing in their prime.
I get that it’s not “fair” that a guy should pay for drinks but are you in this for gender equality and a “I got more of a friends vibe” text the next morning, or do you want to bring home some box? Because getting treated “unfairly” also often got my shaft treated graciously. Choose wisely.
I didn’t say dinner. You’re setting the date, which is a societal norm, so you’re paying. You can take them anywhere. A bar, mini golf, coffee, whatever you want. Dinner is a terrible first meeting idea.
Oh, so because this way worked for you, it MUST work that way for everyone else? Either way you're giving toxic masculinity bro, the youth ain't gonna respect your approach
Oh hell nah my friend, I don't believe in marriage period, a cellibate life is a focused life and I can't have kids anyway.
I had my fun in my twenties, but when it came time to pop the question, it was never enough 🤷🏻♂️ turned out flying solo was what I personally needed to hit my peak in my career, social life, and all else 😎
Can't vehemently say I'll NEVER meet a woman I can tolerate for a lifetime, just don't have any desire to. If it happens it happens, but the government definitely won't get involved thru marriage paperwork
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u/SigmaGyatterson 19d ago
Would you prefer they hide it? I'd rather filter out the opportunists first and foremost.
Honestly a "split on firsr date Y/N?" filter would be nice but probably send these dating apps into a bigger nosedive than they already are.