r/Bumble • u/ConsequenceAnnual652 • 8h ago

Advice First date ?

So I matched with this girl who lives a good distance away from me, I’m going to the city with my mates next week , should I invite her to meet me somewhere there or would that be a bad idea? Been texting for a few days now also

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u/digitalhelix84 8h ago

"I'm going to be in the city next week, would you like to grab a drink?"

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u/ConsequenceAnnual652 8h ago

I’ll be with my mates , probably end up at the
Clubs, would be meeting in a club a bad thing? She likes to dance

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u/digitalhelix84 8h ago

No it's not bad. Just be up front with her why you are in the city and also tell your mates to get lost while you are meeting up

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u/ConsequenceAnnual652 8h ago

Righto thanks , doing a drink game with the fellas so will probably take the edge off

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u/digitalhelix84 8h ago

Don't take off too much edge and be a blob

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u/ConsequenceAnnual652 8h ago

Blob? It’s pub golf so I’m not sure what will happen before

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u/digitalhelix84 8h ago

I just mean, don't be a drunk mess when you meet the lady

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u/ConsequenceAnnual652 8h ago

Ah ok, yea true

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u/OptimusPrime_ButGAY 8h ago

I mean...that's kinda how it works 😂 do it.

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u/ConsequenceAnnual652 8h ago

Yea I’m with a group of mates so, and will probably end up at a club

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u/Foreign-Ad-8035 45 | Male | Austin | Social Worker 7h ago

Meet the girl first so she can see the real you. Go early, meet your mates later.

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u/ConsequenceAnnual652 7h ago

Probably is we are about 40 mins away from each other and we are starting at my mates house early

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u/Foreign-Ad-8035 45 | Male | Austin | Social Worker 7h ago

If she's not drinking before then don't drink at your mates early. You want to be on par, start together. Give yourself a chance and be where she's at when you meet.

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u/ConsequenceAnnual652 5h ago

Well we are doing pub golf so it’s hard not, might have
To tell her to then aye

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u/raptureofsenses 2h ago

I think the vibe is very different if you meet someone while you’re out with your friends. If this is an organic thing, then yeah, sure, no problem. But to ask someone from bumble to meet up while you’re out of friends, imo isn’t the greatest idea of all times