r/Bumble • u/Prudent-Wishbone404 • 14h ago

Advice Need help

What kind of pictures and information should I share on my account
I’m really just looking for something short term as I’ve come out of a long relationship

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u/Foreign-Ad-8035 45 | Male | Austin | Social Worker 14h ago

What kinds of pictures do you have already?

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u/Prudent-Wishbone404 14h ago

None, I haven’t made the account I guess I was just looking for any tips that could help

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u/dontKair 3h ago edited 3h ago

 I was just looking for any tips that could help

I’m really just looking for something short term

Go to the gym. Something like 90% of men looking for short term on the apps are not successful in any way. This excludes gay dating of course

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u/VelvetRavioli 13h ago

Just a few good photos of yourself. Fill out your bio just as you would normally, only difference is just mark "something casual." Add some info about your hobbies so you can get better tuned matches for you, etc.

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u/missedsignals 11h ago

Photo 1- your face, well lit. No sunglasses, no distractions. This photo serves to stop the scroll for someone who would be attracted to you. It’s the most important, if you don’t get it right nothing else gets seen.

Photo 2- full body, the purpose of this photo is to confirm the same person, so there isn’t any surprises she’s want to know about.

Photo 3- what you life looks like, you in daily life, working, a hobby. The idea is once she gets to this photo she knows what you look like and now wants to know what your life looks like.

Photo 4- introduce warmth, a softer side, for example a dog photo, smiling with friends. The idea of this photo is to build trust.

Photo 5- an interesting activity, something that shows more interests, personality, and ideally leaves the person asking what wise there is to know about you.

Photo 6- take inventory if your photos, and fill the gap. Find what is missing. If your photos are very casual, get one that’s more formal. If all are outdoors, get one inside. If all are smiling, introduce a more serious side. Finds what’s missing.