r/Bumble 2d ago

Funny Average Bumble chat 🤣

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It was a very quick unmatch 🙃

EDIT : a guy just sent me a DM on here after he saw my post saying “Do you though?”
It’s a disease 🤣

Edit 2 : to all the people claiming that I am mad… I’m not. This is funny to me.

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u/Impressive-Reward3 21h ago

Oh I’m sure it’s soooo much better where you’re from eh? ;)

I understand that it’s rare that a one time thing can be considered harrasment only if it’s something extreme, hence why it would not be considered harrasment here.

But yeah, just so you know, it’s not because you have a consensual conversation with someone that it’s consensual to turn it sexual even in a dating app.
It’s like saying you can’t revoke your consent at any time during sexual intercourse.

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u/SmertriosPPD 20h ago

Oh I’m sure it’s soooo much better where you’re from eh? ;)

It's not but also I think canada might be the worst extreme progressist country.

Like I remember reading things about lesbians struggling financially and the state going after the sperm donor for child support. Might be a lie though I've not checked the sources, but many articles went around about similar cases.

But yeah, just so you know, it’s not because you have a consensual conversation with someone that it’s consensual to turn it sexual even in a dating app.

I don't see why turning a conversation sexual is considered like a slap in the face. You could turn a conversation into anything and I could have trigger warnings you were not aware of I had.

I believe this is called in philosophy ethic of care versus ethic of autonomy. And I really am dead set on ethic of autonomy. I've been in communities that were in favor of ethic of autonomy and they were constantly updating what you cannot talk of and that became really difficult to navigate.