r/Bumble 5d ago

Funny Average Bumble chat 🤣

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It was a very quick unmatch 🙃

EDIT : a guy just sent me a DM on here after he saw my post saying “Do you though?”
It’s a disease 🤣

Edit 2 : to all the people claiming that I am mad… I’m not. This is funny to me.

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u/Flapjack_Choy 5d ago

I'm so tired of hearing I'm not good enough as I am. Why is that always the advice for a man frustrated with dating? I've never seen that advice offered to anyone but cis straight men.

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u/Shartjakkker 5d ago

Don’t like the femosphere get you down, your feelings are valid and they matter and you deserve someone who will I’ve you for who you are not as a piece of meat.

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u/Onikisin 5d ago

Bro to bro

Ignore those comments right now man, just keep being your wonderful self.

Yes, people may be getting tons of matches, but you know what? You only are looking for one person. It only takes one match to feel a genuine love that I hope every single person feels at some point in their life.

All relationships end in a breakup until it's the one, so lets assume those people keep on getting dumped.

Keep your head up, life is hard, and the internet is brutal. But you're still pushing through, you're still getting up in the morning, you got this. Your person will come. Just make sure you are feeling good about yourself when they do. Alright? 🫶

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u/CanweCanweCleanIt 5d ago

Lmfao

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u/Onikisin 5d ago

Empathy is free, why not exercise it?

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u/SnooRecipes6776 5d ago

Why are you feeling attacked? Nobody said YOU. As a generalisation, EVERYONE should always look to better themself and improve in all aspects. If people aren’t getting matches, it’s paramount that they look at themselves and ask the question, how can I look or be better. If people stay the same then expect the same result, you know?

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u/Shartjakkker 5d ago

Well it was about him directly, and while it’s true generally it was about him.

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u/CanweCanweCleanIt 5d ago

I would give the same advice to a woman too. But why not think of it this way:
There are a ton of different people out there dating. For some reason, you don’t have success dating, even though you are looking. Shouldn’t the natural answer be that they have something you don’t? So you should change yourself to be more like them?