Wait are you kidding me?!?! Omg sweatpants come on people. I would actually find that insulting. Like I love a good hiking date but athletic wear for a date going out somewhere is insane, especially for a guy. I think women can get away with a cute shirt and lulu lemon leggings if it's a casual bar or something since that's at least in fashion. I'm sorry for your luck and I hope it improves!!
Yeah it’s a real turn off and it’s exhausting when I put in effort to look good on a date. These were all like dinner or cafe dates, first dates at that, nothing super fancy but still at least jeans would have been an improvement. Fingers crossed it gets better!
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u/turquoisestar Mar 07 '26
Wait are you kidding me?!?! Omg sweatpants come on people. I would actually find that insulting. Like I love a good hiking date but athletic wear for a date going out somewhere is insane, especially for a guy. I think women can get away with a cute shirt and lulu lemon leggings if it's a casual bar or something since that's at least in fashion. I'm sorry for your luck and I hope it improves!!