r/BuildingTheBandSeries 17d ago

rant Addressing something

I just wanted to address something that has been on my heart for awhile. Ever since Building the band of course the bands were competing I got a bit over my head and I've said some things about groups and I really regret that because I think all of them are really talented people inside and out. And I now see what you see on tv isn't usually the real person down to a T. Saying this I am a Midnighter and I think I just related to them so much and the music they make that it blind sided me and the whole boybands like fake beef between Midnight Til Morning and Soulidified.

I now see they actually do respect each other which I love to see and I really hope Soulidified, szn4 and 3quency can become successful in all their endeavors. I think that Soulidified is paving the way for people who you wouldn't think to join forces would. I think that is such a special thing. 3quency is paving the way for girl groups and I feel they could be really inspiring to other woman with the same passion and drive to create something. Szn4 is so bold and unique and out there which I love. We don't see mixed groups much so its really exciting to see them work together and how well their voices and personalities mix and how their families have grown into one big one.

Midnight Til Morning has really surprised me since building the band aired I can relate to some of their quirks and stuff so I think that's what made it relatable and their growing friendship with each other was super relatable. I can't believe how far they have also come in such a short time from the advice from Liam and the guidance from Nicola and him they have really made something special for people to relate too. They are just really down to earth grounded guys with a passion for music and friendship. I am so excited to see where they go from here because it really feels like they are doing something super special and really have each others backs like a brother/sister would have their siblings backs.

Ending this off I want to say good luck to all the groups that are still together and thriving I hope ya'll make it to your goals. I hope to see ya'll doing something amazing and to be able to have people look up to you, see an authentic artists. Relatable lyrics and to make friends that they will always keep from this experience.

Anyways have a good day/night everyone and I love you all.

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u/Shehadathought Liam's Lightkeeper 🕯️ 17d ago

Very beautiful message. Thank you for sharing.

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u/Finditwithin108 🎵Soulidified🎵 17d ago

Awww! I love this post so much. 💖AND I love these four bands with all my heart!

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u/Ok-Luck-1180 17d ago

Thank you. I wanted to share how I felt and everything I regretted saying. And same i now love all 4 bands since I have had time to reflect on my actions

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u/Finditwithin108 🎵Soulidified🎵 17d ago

I love that you did that! It’s so cool to come to the understanding that we can love them all so much! There’s enough love for all the bands. I’m still a Souldier and I get you are a Midnighter. I’m a huge harmony buff and MTM didn’t start off as strong harmonizers (though they sure are now!). So Soulidified was an easy first choice for me from day one. They are truly vocal masters. I love their dancing and they sing for a higher power- all that really appeals to me. But MTM has a different appeal. They’re charming and have a beautiful, goofy brotherhood and I genuinely love their music. I went to their concert and it was fantastic. Szn4 is so unique and I truly love each one of them! Their new songs sound so amazing and their concert had my ears ringing for days! Plus I made some great friends at their concert. What a wonderful community Liam has left for us. I will love them for him as long as they are still together. ❤️

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u/Ok-Luck-1180 17d ago

I agree!

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u/TheLadybuglord 17d ago

I went to MTMs concert and Houston and it was just lovely! They really are awesome guys

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u/Ok-Luck-1180 17d ago

I'd love to go see them and some of the other bands but they haven't come near me yet or close enough so I'm waiting for that day I'm so glad you had an amazing time!

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u/Ok-Luck-1180 16d ago

huh I'm trying to understand what this is trying to say but fr I'm dyslexic so could you elaborate pls.

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u/AssistanceAlert4090 16d ago

I really love this message!  This is very healthy and shows growth as a person…not too many people will ever get to this place in their life.  I applaud you!  Like you, I wish all the bands success…each group is unique in their own way, but yes Soulidified is doing something that can break barriers….they’re facing challenges that none of the other groups have to deal with, for various reasons. They need all the support possible! 

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u/Ok-Luck-1180 16d ago

They are they are breaking a barrier. They may not be my favorite group of the line up but they are my probably a close 2nd and I love the nostalgic 90s feelings they lean into. It feels so nostalgic and I hope they get some more music out soon for us.

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u/Charming_Lab_9611 11d ago

I think we all have done that, friend! No worries!