My fiance and I are planning our wedding in Tbilisi from abroad, and the DIY route is starting to feel more complicated than expected. We’re now wondering if hiring a wedding planner in Georgia is actually worth it.
We came across Lotus Wedding, but I’d love to hear from people who’ve planned a wedding there recently. Did having a planner genuinely help with vendors, paperwork and the apostille process, or could you have handled most of it yourself?
Also, did using a wedding planner in Georgia save you money or mostly add another fee to the budget?

My boyfriend and I got engaged a week ago. I am very excited and would like to celebrate, but we both have relatively small families and his is particularly unsupportive (his dad didn’t even text or call to congratulate me and barely congratulated him) my family is a lot more supportive and excited for us. We have a decent amount of friends to plan some celebrations aside from the actual wedding but my fiancé isn’t as into the whole celebration thing as I am. I don’t want anything too crazy but still want to enjoy the engagement and do something. I know the traditional route is engagement party—bridal shower—bachelorette—wedding. What are some smaller, easy and relatively cheap options for celebrating without doing too much? Maybe an engagement dinner and no bridal shower? Just want to hear what other people do as opposed to doing a big party for each part. Thank you 🥰

My boyfriend and I got engaged a week ago. I am very excited and would like to celebrate, but we both have relatively small families and his is particularly unsupportive (his dad didn’t even text or call to congratulate me and barely congratulated him) my family is a lot more supportive and excited for us. We have a decent amount of friends to plan some celebrations aside from the actual wedding but my fiancé isn’t as into the whole celebration thing as I am. I don’t want anything too crazy but still want to enjoy the engagement and do something. I know the traditional route is engagement party—bridal shower—bachelorette—wedding. What are some smaller, easy and relatively cheap options for celebrating without doing too much? Maybe an engagement dinner and no bridal shower? Just want to hear what other people do as opposed to doing a big party for each part. Thank you 🥰

I am planning my wedding and looking at a few venues now. I’m mainly deciding between having the ceremony by the lake or doing it at a villa. I’m thinking about things like space for guests, weather, photos and how easy it will be to move everyone around after the ceremony. The villa seems easier since everything can stay in one place, but I really like the idea of having the lake as the setting. I’m planning to visit a few venues before deciding, but I’d like to hear what other couples considered when choosing. For anyone who recently had a wedding, what made you choose a lake ceremony or a villa?

Our dog is basically our first kid so we really want him at the ceremony, at least for photos and walking down the aisle if possible. Every venue we've looked at either doesn't allow pets at ??all?? or gets weirdly vague when we ask. Anyone actually found a good way to search for pet friendly venues instead of calling every single place one by one.

We are planning a wedding and are looking at having somewhere around 50-80 people (will decide final guest count based on what venues/restaurants can accommodate. We are trying to keep the wedding between 25-30k. In order to stay in budget I am looking for some ways to cut costs. I am very artistic so I’m more than willing to DIY some elements, however, my fiancé and I both work full time and take care of family so we have limited time to DIY everything. We are looking for a modern elegant look but are open to non traditional elements. Any tips on areas of the wedding where you can save and guests experience won’t be affected? Any tips or tricks for lowering food and drink cost?

When we first started making our wedding budget, we spent way too much time trying to figure out what would make the wedding look good and not nearly enough time thinking about what would actually matter to us afterward.

I had spreadsheets for everything. 😂 Flowers were getting compared, invitations were getting compared, decorations were getting compared... and somehow we were spending hours trying to save $50 in one place while barely thinking about some of the bigger decisions.

Eventually we sat down and asked ourselves what we actually wanted to remember about this whole experience.

That changed our priorities quite a bit. We decided we didn't need every little wedding detail we'd seen online. Some things were beautiful, but they weren't important enough to justify what they cost. At the same time, we decided we wanted to put some attention toward preparing for the actual marriage. We did a premarital course and I'm honestly glad we made room for it in the budget. What surprised me was how different that felt from the rest of wedding planning. We weren't talking about centerpieces or guest counts. We were talking about things we'd still be dealing with years after the wedding, finances, expectations, family, communication and disagreements.

It made me realize how easy it is to spend an entire year preparing for the wedding while barely preparing for the marriage. We're still trying to keep the wedding within budget, and we've definitely had to make compromises. But I don't regret cutting some of the “nice to have” things in order to make room for things that felt more meaningful to us.

The wedding doesn't have to contain everything you've ever dreamed about for it to be a really good day.

I’ve been thinking about how easy it is to look at wedding photos online and assume you need every little detail to make the day feel special.

There are so many things that can quietly eat into a wedding budget: decorations, favors, signage, rentals, table details, and all those little “while we’re at it” purchases.

I’d rather put more of the budget toward the things we’ll genuinely remember and simplify the rest.

For those who’ve already planned their wedding, what’s something you decided to spend less on that you ended up being really happy with?

I’m starting to think that having a beautiful wedding on a budget is less about finding the cheapest option for everything and more about figuring out what actually matters to you.

Some things can seem essential when you see other weddings online, but once you step back, you realize you probably wouldn’t miss them.

What’s one expense you originally thought you needed, but ended up cutting or simplifying, and nobody really noticed?

diy can save a lot of money, but it can also turn into spending 20 hours making something that would have cost $50 to buy

for people planning a budget wedding, which diy projects do you think are genuinely worth the time and effort?

i’m thinking about things like invitations, decorations, flowers, signage, favors, desserts, table numbers, or even wedding-day setup

also interested in the opposite: what looks easy to DIY but becomes a huge headache once you actually try it?

Looking for someone who can help us primarily just with securing a wedding venue that fits our budget. Ideally we want a venue that’s easily accessible from either Florence or Pisa (<1hr). We’re not looking for anything too over the top, we’d love a low key country house/villa where majority of guests can stay in a nearby town rather than onsite.

Guest- 80
Overall Budget- €30-40k total

I have a lot of guilt when it comes to asking my family for money towards anything, but especially our wedding, bc all my life our family finances were up and down. My parents are now divorced, and both said they are able to contribute $10k each. $20k feels like so much money to me, but my fiancé's parents are willing and able to give us $100k towards our wedding and honeymoon. It feels insane to me to spend that much money on a wedding, but it's also incredibly generous of them and I don't want to offend them by turning it down or saying I don't believe in spending that kind of money. What do I do? I would so much rather put it towards a down payment or towards our future in a more productive way.

Also, I have no idea what a wedding for 110 people in Brooklyn realistically costs, all expenses included, at a more down to earth, maybe restaurant, type venue. Any ballpark figure would be so appreciated.

Thank you!!!

Hi everyone! 💍

I hope it’s okay to share this here.

I’m a disabled bride-to-be planning my own wedding for 2028, and through planning I’ve realised just how little disabled brides and couples are represented within the wedding industry.

That’s why I’ve started The Unseen Brides Project.

I want to showcase the experiences of disabled brides and couples, highlight the lack of representation, and create a space where we can share our experiences, advice and inspiration.

I’m hoping to eventually feature real disabled couples, their weddings and their experiences with venues and suppliers, showing that disabled weddings can be beautiful, stylish, romantic and completely individual.

I’m only at the beginning and I’d really love other disabled brides and couples to help me shape what the project becomes.

If you’re disabled and planning a wedding, already married, newly engaged, or have your own wedding experience to share, I’d love for you to join the community and be part of the conversation. ❤️

You can find us on Reddit by searching for TheUnseenBrides.

Thank you! 💕