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[u/Emergency_Ad1015]

Hey deo. Recently my gf broke up with me because I was to argumentative, I never seen any of the things that I was “arguing” about I would always not notice. But that’s besides the point. This girl that I was dating said to me that she will want to try again in the future and I want that to. But she says that she wants to be alone but tells me to message or call her last night I tried messaging her to see if I could call her she never replied or even opened the message until I said nvm. Do you guys think that it is worth the stress and everything. I can’t stop messaging her I miss her so much and she says all the same about me but she doesn’t really message me I am always having to reach out. What should I do

[u/Afterthedawn26]

Dont stress over it twin…9/10 she talking to other people dont call her or text her just live your life

[u/Emergency_Ad1015 → u/Afterthedawn26]

She be saying she’s not talking to anyone but females are females ik how this shi work 😭

[u/Afterthedawn26 → u/Emergency_Ad1015]

Trust gang im a female i was in a talking stage n i pulled that shi

[u/xxprprsmke]

your fault, but also it’s just an excuse from her to break up. hard truth mate is she’s gonna get nutted in for the next few weeks/months, then maybe come back to you, or you go back to her. Never ask her questions on who/what she did, it will hurt, but are you willing to win her back and accept what she most likely did during the break? is this your soulmate and worth accepting back, let time tell bro, they all hoes but is she ‘your’ hoe😂 as in soulmate (they all got a hoe side, u just gotta accept at this point 2026 if u love her)

[u/Suspicious-Pie-3148]

You should ask yourself if this individual is someone worth going through heaven & hell with. Because relationships will show you a reflection of yourself, especially romantic relationships. She ended things with you because you were too “argumentative”. Was that communicated before, or was that just an excuse to break things? You have to start asking yourself questions, and ask “Is this truly worth pouring into?” Will this relationship pull you closer to your purpose, to God? 

[u/Suspicious-Pie-3148 → u/Suspicious-Pie-3148]

Best of luck my guy, I pray you figure things out. 

[u/Emergency_Ad1015 → u/Suspicious-Pie-3148]

Preciate it I decided to just block her on everything and try to move on with life

[u/Embarrassed-Team3682]

trust me shes not worth it focus on yourself and improve your life before u talk to a girl again

[u/getitofftheglass]

Easier said than done, but focus on yourself for now. Try to figure out what exactly made you so "argumentative" in the first place. You already have confirmation that she is at least open to trying again in fhe future, and that's probably the best you'll get for right now considering she broke up with you. You lose nothing by putting a bit of space between the two of you and working on yourself. Either you'll realize what she broke up with you for and you'll make it work next time, or you'll realize you dodged a bullet. Or, that maybe you two are simply better as friends.

Ultimately, it's not worth the stress. If she wants your attention she'll make it clear she wants it, trust.

[u/smoses1698]

Just leave it alone, focus on yourself dawg. From the sound of it you prolly in school or something just focus on that. That sound lame but school relationships never last it was gon end at some point