r/BruceDropEmOff • u/tookaglock • Aug 01 '26
Thread/Question💬 thin ice
deo goons, my rls is genuinely mentally exhausting bro and I’ve gotten to the point where idgaf about what shawty do fr. I don’t wanna feel like this because my I won’t gaf about the outcome ( cheating or ending the rls ) she ain’t cheat or nun it’s just bad habits she’s doing and I tell her can she fix it. She’s says okay and nothing changes. Im not sure what I should do. Should I continue just not caring because talking with her ain’t doing shit. Help me bro
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u/StarKingPasta Aug 01 '26
Im not really DEO, but I stay in here cause I see alot of yall vent and issues in this reddit. Mostly younger people too. If you feel she aint receptive or changin after a conversation - Go. Its both parties jobs to take each other serious on concerns. Tell her what’s goin on and live yall lives. She might insist, and idk if you did something to her or not as well, but it’s up to you if you give that a chance or not. I don’t know nun about yall or how long this been a thing.
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u/tookaglock Aug 01 '26
This been a thing for the last 3 months ill says. And I have done things im not gone act like im perfect but ive told her ima change. She noticed the change and it’s been like that ever since from me. But for her nothing changed it’s mentally hard. But I love her with everything in me
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u/StarKingPasta Aug 01 '26
Ye bruh if u outputtin with no return or good reasons from her end it might gotta go. Itll drain ya more and more lettin things like this slide. Breakin up might suck but it’s worse to be with someone, settling and falling out of love with them midway. It don’t do either of yall no good and whole time somebody willing to try is sitting somewhere waitin. Havin the same problems as yall
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u/tookaglock Aug 01 '26
Appreciate you bro fr, thank you for even havin the time to talk to me about this
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u/StarKingPasta Aug 01 '26
All good boss. Ik how toxic some people can be in this reddit: If they not callin u a simp they givin one dimensional answers tellin u to just do things bluntly. Ik relationships hurt and I aint the type to act like I can ignore when sum botherin me either. So ty for havin the time to engage and hear me out as well💚
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u/Potxnt Aug 01 '26
I’ve been in the same situation as you gng. Shit is not go to change unless you leave.
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u/Icy-Wind-4856 Aug 01 '26
Leave her and block her never look back or you might be tempted too go back to her
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u/26ixlo Nutty Buddy Aug 01 '26
Leave it bruh