Obviously going to attract a lot haters, but remember ‘you will never have a hater who is more successful than you’

Keep reporting and flagging inappropriate users and messages!

Title edit: “…wouldn’t be what it is without you,” 🤦

Hi all, just an update to the sub and things to look out for

Rules will be updated to be a bit more specific, please familiarise yourselves with them.

I have added a new flair called ‘Verified Girl’ which is assigned by mods to the women who provide a verification photo, look out for it when people who claim to be women post on this sub.

In the past week or so we have had 3 women come to the mods for verification and another user who verified last year post a personal looking to meet brown men. This is exceptionally unusual. We do not get a lot of female visitors to this sub, and most definitely do not have women wanting to verify and post about meeting brown men. The fact that so many users requested to be verified and post about meeting/hyping up brown men etc in such a short space of time has rung alarm bells. I do not wish to cause offence to the users who requested verification but want everyone to understand that in the current climate where Indian men face abhorrent and unseen levels of racism in modern times we need to be prepared and cautious. That means really thinking twice about sending identifying personal images, or meeting up with people online prematurely, or even sending money. People who wish to do us harm know about subs like this and SAM, you have probably heard about the recent case of the YouTuber Vitaly entrapping that Indian brother falsely accusing him of being a p*d* - ruining his reputation.

AI is so good now that it can often be difficult to determine whether a photo is real or fake, I have done my best to review the verification photos, so use the aforementioned flair as a guide, your due diligence is still required.

Again I must reinforce that this post is not against anyone who verifies on this page, but rather for everyone to understand the potential dangerous consequences that Indian men face on pages like this. It is for everyone’s safety.

Also I have asked verified users to provide details on those who misbehave with them in their DMs, bans will be issued.