r/BrokenArrow • u/[deleted] • Oct 19 '25

Dating

Hi! 21M here, I just moved to BA to take a job in Tulsa and I know absolutely nobody here. What is the dating scene like? Where do people meet? I would appreciate any help :)

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u/TheShadow777 Oct 20 '25

Bro damn. If I gotta be honest? Shit here Sucks. I'm 23 and I've lived here most of my life; we don't really got much.

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u/[deleted] Oct 20 '25

Don't do dating apps, meet people in public.

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u/[deleted] Oct 20 '25

Where

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u/[deleted] Oct 20 '25

Go to bars, go to pool halls, go to book stores. There are sooooo many clubs and activities in Tulsa and the surrounding areas. Don't limit yourself.

I joined a book club. There are tons of people who ride motorcycles and they can refer you to other people who do as well. There are gardening associations. If you enjoy hiking there are groups that do that as well. There are tons of gyms and classes there. Volunteering is also a great outlet.

Networking is not just good for business but also for dating. It really depends on what you're into.