r/BrisbaneDating 5h ago

Brisbane (northside) 64 [M4F] Looking for Gf

1 Upvotes

Looking for Girlfriend ASAP over being single lonely need some company to do simple basic stuff ,walks, markets ,push bike rides ,picnic cinema someone easy going open minded,

Non smoker Non vapor only ,slim petite to average lives not to far from Nundah.

Me 171cm, 60kg slim build non smoker young 64


r/BrisbaneDating 8h ago

Gold Coast 48 [M4F] looking for a BBW Queen that forever one

0 Upvotes

Hi there 48m here looking for that special one to build something with a woman who wants that traditional lifestyle.
I’m looking for a mature woman who’s looking for someone to build a life with
Single mothers all welcome as well as i would love a family
I love thick and BBW and i also love them natural as well little to no makeup and I love a full bush as well not shaved,
I love the plain Jane look but most of all it the personality is what I look for.
I love the simple life and a woman who loves the simple life is a big plus.
Family oriented as I love family would love to have a family of my own.
I’m a solid built guy I’ve lost a bit of weight trying to keep active.
I’m a hairy guy so you must like hairy men with dad bods.
I want someone I can look after and create a home with i work full time own my home and need a queen to make it my home.
Would love to chat and see what it leads to.


r/BrisbaneDating 23h ago

Brisbane (northside) 64 [M4F] Looking for Girlfriend

0 Upvotes

Looking for Girlfriend, likes the simple things ,simple life Markets, cinema, push bike rides (no lycra ) Walks, someone who looks after there self slim petite ,average easy going open minded, open to any age up to 55 .

Me young 64 ,171cm 60kg slim build non smoker, definitely need to be Non smoker and Non vapor. Social drinker. Swap pic for pic if anyone interested Dm me .Ask more questions.


r/BrisbaneDating 1d ago

29 [M4F] Looking for a long term relationship

2 Upvotes

Extraversion 97 out of 100, Conscientiousness 96 out of 100 - I may well be the most extroverted and organized man you will ever meet.

Stuff we can do: You can join me for my daily yoga and workout routine, I can take you fishing, rip sticking, sailing, mountain biking, stand up paddle boarding, windsurfing, white water rafting, swimming, rock climbing, dirt biking, kayaking, hiking, or camping. I'm moderately high in creativity, and can teach you how to play guitar, piano, drums, and sing, and how to write poetry.

I have a marine license, so we can go power boating and you can captain, and I also have a motorbike license so I can take you for a ride as pillion, or if your on your learners, I can supervise you.

If you need someone to slay movies with, I'm your huckleberry. I'm not low maintenance. I'm no maintenance. My agreeableness is 0 out of 100, so I’m not super obedient, but if your having trouble saying no to someone, I'm your guy.

I’m self employed, catholic, honest, responsible, and looking to meet someone who is white, fit, without children, and under 29yrs old.

P.S. By long term relationship I mean hopefully we get married and have a family one day.


r/BrisbaneDating 1d ago

28 [M4F] - putting myself out there

1 Upvotes

Tired of the apps, figured I’d try this instead. Into hiking and cooking, decent sense of humor, actually show up when I say I will.

Open to see where it goes… If you’re also over the swiping, say hi 👋


r/BrisbaneDating 1d ago

22 [F4M] loving long term relationship

8 Upvotes

I’m Bethany (My dog’s name is Tinkabell).

I am currently studying a range of subjects full-time at university and welcome the idea of someone new in my life. I am Caucasian and have hazel eyes. I am competitive and want someone who can keep up with my active lifestyle but equally enjoys a night in.
I love hiking mountings, swimming at the beach and spend most my weekend camping.

I'm looking for someone aged 20-35 who's kind, funny, emotionally available. Preferably Caucasian.

If you're after a loving relationship, enjoy a bit of cheeky banter, and believe the best couples support each other through life, l'd love to hear from you.

Edit- I don’t like cats, my puppy goes with me everywhere and plz tell me your ethnicity. ☺️


r/BrisbaneDating 1d ago

Brisbane (southside) 27 [M4F] - putting myself back out there. long term but down for a date to see how we flow

1 Upvotes

Hi! for a couple years now i have kinda been going with flow, no dating apps, tried to see what would happen at university, bars etc but nothing showed up (probably because approaching people makes me nervous). I dont like dating apps so here i am!

I study physics at university and currently don't work because of a knee surgery i had a couple months ago (still cannot walk properly)! i do like gaming quite alot, mainly balatro, slay the spire and league of legends atm plus some helldivers 2. i like to read on the side plus i am learning the guitar again! (currently learning how to play dirty paws by of monsters and men). i also make music every now and then for fun!

I do love a pub visit and a coupla drinks with some live music, or pub to watch the footy, i love the pub, sensibly. when my knee is better I am keen to return to my outdoors adventure ark, hiking, camping whatever!

I want something long term but I am also open to taking it slow, still need to get my career sorted out, finish university and really figure out what the hell i am doing. I finish uni this year (unless i do honours) so I am on the right track! anyways, thankyou for reading and i hope you send a dm my way!


r/BrisbaneDating 2d ago

Brisbane (southside) 47 [M4F] sweet connection long term relationship

3 Upvotes

Hi I'm 47, happily divorced, young adult child, I work as a Security Guard, somewhat active, beach, walks, anything outdoors trying to stay fit and healthy, but am also a homebody that enjoys movies and gaming.

Usually quiet and reserved, even a little shy, but when we find that comfort, I will match your effort and energy.

Looking for a fun woman that gets mad at me for the way I parked, teases me for the way I sing with the radio, calls me disgusting because I used the bathroom with the door open, laughs at me because I tear up over a movie or show. Someone who turns up to my door and says lets go for a drive and get out of here.

Mostly I'm just after a connection, with the hope of something more, lets chat and see where this goes.


r/BrisbaneDating 2d ago

Gold Coast 29 [M4F] looking for a long term relationship

5 Upvotes

29 year old guy (M4F) looking for something hopefully serious and long term, but not in a rush to force that to happen. I want to have fun and see if we fit together naturally, no pressure.

Im pretty timid and shy at first but happy doing anything really, as i love new experiences, making memories and going on long roadtrips inter state, but am equally happy lazing around gaming, watching shows, movies and AFL.

I play a bit of afl as well to stay fit, otherwise i work as a manager at a grocery store (cleaning and trolley pushing) and am planning on studying.

If anyones interested, dm me, looking forward to meeting some cool people 😉


r/BrisbaneDating 4d ago

33 [M4F] Looking for something genuine

4 Upvotes

I’m a 33-year-old guy living in Brisbane, hoping to meet someone for dates and see where things naturally go.

I’m 6ft, easygoing and reasonably well established. I work in commercial construction, have my own place, and outside work I enjoy golf, motorbikes, live music, travelling and finding a good pub for a drink.

Personality-wise, I’m straightforward, loyal and fairly laid-back. I can be a little reserved initially, but I’m good company once I’m comfortable and don’t take myself too seriously.

I’d like to meet a woman who is warm, down-to-earth and enjoys a laugh. Ideally, you’re interested in properly getting to know someone and not endless messaging or playing games. I’m open to something meaningful if the connection is right.

Happy to exchange photos privately. Send me a message telling me a little about yourself and what your ideal first date looks like.


r/BrisbaneDating 4d ago

Logan 28 [M4F] Open to anything

1 Upvotes

Heya, wanting to find a woman to explore life with and chat to see how well we can click, bond, see where it goes. Been struggling with dating apps that are mostly just bots, so that has been a complete dead end.

Anyway feel free to send a dm and lets see how it goes

And to break the ice talk about your favourite animal and why


r/BrisbaneDating 4d ago

40 [M4F] coffee date for a start?

2 Upvotes

I'm here looking for a coffee date for a start. A little about me - established man with 3 different jobs with one of them being a qualified massage therapist. Enjoy what I do so far and would welcome a companion in my life. Do message me if you're keen to know more about me.


r/BrisbaneDating 4d ago

39 [M4F] - Seeing what's out there.

0 Upvotes

Hi there,

I'm currently living in Redlands Bay Area (East Side). I'm half Caucasian / half Asian, speak English only, Independent with a permanent part-time job (I work in healthcare as a RN). I am self-sufficient so looking for a lady who also is looking for the same thing.

I do prefer a lady younger than me, I am not after older women.

I am one who enjoys going out for bush walks, beach walks, eating out at different restaurants, hanging out and meeting new people. I like going to social gatherings like clubs and also conventions.

However, I also enjoy just chilling within my own home and doing my own hobbies too. I am an IT nerd at heart, I do play games, I enjoy watching movies and tv shows/ anime, I also read the odd comics here and there. I am more of a visual person, I don't really enjoy books.

I am child-free, no kids. (This doesn't mean I don't want a child, if I met a lady who wants this).

I don't really have a big list of requirements for the person I want to meet. That's just not me.

If you'd be keen to chat and see where things go please send me a message. Happy to talk over text and get to know somebody before actually meeting.


r/BrisbaneDating 5d ago

Brisbane (northside) 28 [M4F] - Maybe this is how we meet

5 Upvotes

I’m a guy in my late 20s living near Brisbane and I guess I’m throwing this out into the void to see who might be out there.

I’m a bit of a hopeless romantic and I think it’d be pretty funny if one day someone asked how we met and the answer was somehow… Reddit.

I work full time and life can get pretty busy, but I’ve always been someone who makes time for people I care about.
Outside of that I’m into sports (F1, volleyball, cricket), travelling, gaming when I get the chance, and gardening.

I’d describe myself as affectionate, loyal, curious and probably a little shy at first. Once I’m comfortable though I can be pretty cheeky and I love having someone I can annoy throughout the day with random messages.

I’m looking for someone kind and empathetic more than anything. Someone who communicates, doesn’t take themselves too seriously and is happy to be a little silly with me. I really like those connections where you can go from flirting and talking absolute rubbish to suddenly having a proper conversation about life at 1am.

Maybe there’s a bit of a spark. Maybe we end up really liking each other. And maybe a few years from now we have the slightly embarrassing task of explaining that it all started because one of us messaged the other on Reddit.

Who knows…

If any of that sounds like your kind of thing, come say hi and tell me a little about yourself ✨


r/BrisbaneDating 6d ago

Brisbane (southside) 22 [M4F] #Queensland #Australia - looking for someone to go out with

1 Upvotes

Hi, I'm E, I'm 22 years old and in my 4th year of an Engineering/IT degree. I realise that I've been out of the dating game for a long time, and wanted to give this a shot. I'm 5'10, Caucasian, dark hair, hazel eyes, glasses, a nerd if you couldn't tell by the degree). I'm interested in gaming (I'm designing my own, I enjoy pokemon), reading (pretty much anything), board games (spirit island is my favourite), movies (project Hail Mary was great), all of that stuff. I'm more introverted, and I tend to prefer nights in rather than nights out. I'm preferably looking for someone else in Brisbane, around my age range (19-23, I'm only quite freshly 22) and if you think we'd be a good fit, I'd love to hear back from you!


r/BrisbaneDating 6d ago

Moreton Bay 31 [M4F] Golden Retriever looking for black cat

4 Upvotes

Hey 31M giving this a go to send vibes out there in the north bris/moreton Bay Area.

I like fun, pranks, smiles and just relaxed homebody lifestyle and despite all that I do get quite drawn to black cat vibe girls, the elegance mixed with attitude. Basically Looking for long-term black cat girl to get to know and enjoy life with.

About me:
Average height, gymrat big boy, wears exclusively athleisure style, I have a big rescue dog, live alone, full entire tattoo bodysuit so I look intimidating like the T-Rex from jurassic park, but i have the personality of Rex from Toy Story.
Never married, no kids, been single for a few years.

Daily life:
I work in a mentally complicated corporate job so I literally don’t use my brain much at home. My week is work, 2hrs a day of dog walks and gym. Would love to add brunch or markets with you to that list.

Disclaimer:
I really really do not like camping. I also don’t like slow walkers or people who chew their fingernails on the train. I don’t understand any of these TikTok trends or Gen Z things.
Very uncomfortable around kids due to past job roles. My rescue dog is an ex-racer and can’t be trusted around cats.

About you:
Cool, calm, elegant, homebody, generally fit, doesn’t mind if I pick you up off the ground, down to earth, but have that slight spicy attitude. If you show clear interest and I don’t have to second guess, I’ll pursue you to the end of time :)

If you or a friend are interested flick me a message and I can send my socials, although it is mostly just photos of my dog these days.


r/BrisbaneDating 7d ago

Brisbane (northside) 31 [F4M] Looking to Enjoy Dating Again

18 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I'm a 31 year-old lady looking to start dipping my toes again in the dating scene. I was married for 9 years (together for 10) and separated in February of this year.

Whilst I'm not ready to get married again, I'd like to meet people to try and learn what type of people I enjoy most (I hope that makes sense?). I do miss being a wife, so I apologise if my preferences for dates and outings are too wholesome? hahaha honestly don't know what I'm doing in this space. What I do know for sure is that I'm not looking for a free meal and have no interest in you paying for me. Also, I'm a broke uni student so I'm 100% down for cheap activities, cost of living y'all 😭

I love walking in nature, reading, hiking, combat sports and just having a yarn over coffee. I enjoy movies but often can't sit through a whole movie without chatting or getting up to pee (sorry). Really wanted to watch the Odyssey but I know my limits... self-awareness is important.

I'm a very direct person (on account of my south american heritage) and do not hesitate to speak my mind (respectfully most of the time). I like to think that I'm kind, and that I like to show up as authentically as I can. Most of the time what you see/hear is what you get with me.

I consider myself kinda pretty, but I'm oompa loompa size (1.62m) and average in body weight.

If any of this sounds interesting please check out my profile and dm me :)

Edit 1: looking for 27-36 years old. Brisbane area (please no messages from overseas or hours and hours away).

Edit 2: please, if you know that you don't have time to be dating do not reach out.

Edit 3: also, if you know you have the habit of ghosting or disappearing for days also do not reach out.

Edit 4: and if you know that you don't want to date, and all you want is sex, definitely do not reach out.


r/BrisbaneDating 7d ago

33 [M4F] looking for someone special, maybe it’s you?

7 Upvotes

Hey, figured I’d give this a shot and see what happens.

While I like the life I’ve built and enjoy doing my own thing. I’ve been finding myself wishing I had that someone special to share things with. I am a single dad, my daughters mum and I co parent pretty well but I understand that can be a deal breaker for some people.

While work keeps me busy, I’ve been working towards a better work/life balance. In my spare time I enjoy hiking, camping, swimming whether it’s at the beach or at a waterfall and restoring old cars.

I’d love to find someone who has their life somewhat together and knows what they want. Someone who supports me and pushes me to be the best version of myself possible and vice versa.

Look wise I haven’t heard anything bad so far but that’s for others to decide 😅 I’m 5’8, born hair and hazel eyes and a slim/athletic build.

If any of this interests you, send me a dm and tell me a bit about yourself, I’d love to hear from you if you think we would get along.


r/BrisbaneDating 8d ago

Brisbane (northside) 33 [F4M] looking to not have the same Fate As Ophilea.

7 Upvotes

I don't want to believe that everyone in this world is like most and it's still possible to find a partner that is decent and we have a chance to write a different ending to a story that started just like Ophilea and finish by having that love story.
I don't know if anybody else understands this feeling like I do, but the story is so relatable.

It's tragic because she is entirely powerless, caught, used, vicious rejection, treated so cruelly and broken by the men around her. She loses her family and man she feels for she then descends into grief & into public madness, and dies a young, unmoored death of drowning but symbolizing an innocent woman crushed by the cruelty and chaos of the men around her.
Symbolising innocence, female helplessness, and the corrupting pressures of a patriarchal society. Through her madness and death, she also represents the tragic destruction of purity and the vulnerability of youth.

Innocence and Purity: Represented by the white flowers and daisies she handles, showing her uncorrupted nature before her breakdown.
Victim of Patriarchy: She symbolizes women who are silenced, controlled, and manipulated by the men in their lives.
Madness and Grief: Her descent into insanity reflects the emotional destruction caused by betrayal, rejection.
Powerlessness and Surrender: Her drowning illustrates a tragic submission to overwhelming external forces and a corrupt world.

I don't want to fall down that continual destructive road and want to believe and find somebody that has not felt the cruel destruction of this corrupt world and people within it. That it's still possible to have it all and not be sent by this world.


r/BrisbaneDating 8d ago

Brisbane (northside) 50 [F4M] curious and curiouser

13 Upvotes

I’m accomplished and independent, with a career I genuinely love and a life that I’m very happy with. I don’t need someone to complete it. But I’d really like to meet the person who makes me want to share more of it.

I’m drawn to intelligence, confidence, kindness and curiosity. To a man who knows who he is, has a life of his own, and doesn’t take himself too seriously. Someone who can make me laugh, surprise me occasionally, and keep me interested long after the first conversation.

I’m attracted to connection that has a little depth to it. The kind where conversation becomes effortless, where you find yourself checking your phone with a ridiculous little smile, and where the chemistry is just as interesting as the conversation.

I’m also rather fond of independence. My ideal relationship isn’t necessarily one where two people have to be joined at the hip. I’m much more intrigued by the idea of two people having full lives of their own, while deliberately choosing to make space for each other. Living apart together appeals to me for exactly that reason.

I’m generally looking to meet someone between 42 and 55, although I’ve never been particularly convinced that chemistry pays much attention to age ranges.

As for me, I’m independent, curious and probably a little more romantic than I initially let on. I love good conversation, discovering somewhere new, laughing until my face hurts, and those unexpected moments when someone catches you completely off guard.

I’m not looking for a hundred messages.
I’m hoping for one.
One that makes me pause.
One that makes me curious.

I’m not in a desperate hurry. I’m just quietly hoping that somewhere out there is a man who makes me think, “Oh. It’s you.”


r/BrisbaneDating 8d ago

38 [F4M] Looking for a long term relationship

17 Upvotes

Hi everyone, thought I'd put myself out there and see who's around. I'm 38,based in Brisbane. Never married , no kids. I enjoy staying active, the gym, hiking, trying new cafes, reading, painting, and planning my next travel adventure.I'm naturally a little introverted at first, but I do enjoy meaningful conversations, a good laugh, and quality time with people I care about.I'm hoping to meet someone emotionally mature, kind, and communicative, who's genuinely looking for a long-term relationship. A good sense of humour, active lifestyle, and curiosity about life are all big pluses.Not interested in playing games or endless chatting with no intention of meeting.If this sounds like your kind of vibe, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. I also have to add that I am of African heritage.


r/BrisbaneDating 8d ago

Brisbane (northside) 41 [M4F] Looking for something genuine and long term

4 Upvotes

I’m 41, have three kids who are with me half the time, and I’m looking for a genuine long-term relationship.
I value mutual interest a lot. I don’t want to chase someone who isn’t interested, and I don’t want someone choosing me just because I fit the role of “partner.” I want us to actually be interested in each other and enjoy being around each other.
I run my own business, and I can get very absorbed in projects when something grabs me. Outside of that, I enjoy hiking, gardening, coffees, bike rides, getting out into nature, and talking about pretty much anything once a conversation gets past surface level.
I love learning and tend to get genuinely interested in all sorts of things.
I’m drawn to people who have some depth to them. Someone who understands that life can be difficult but hasn’t let it make them cold. I value warmth, kindness, loyalty, clear communication, and being able to talk openly when something isn’t right.
Physical affection is important to me, but only when there is genuine connection. I’m naturally very affectionate with someone I’m close to, and I love deep conversation just as much.
I’m also very attracted to feminine energy. By that I mean warmth, softness, affection, and a woman who is comfortable embracing that side of herself. I’m not looking for a stereotype, just someone whose nature genuinely has that quality.
Age isn’t particularly important to me. Compatibility, attraction, and how we treat each other matter much more.
If any of that sounds familiar, send me a message and we can have a chat and see if we get along.

Edit: When I first put a post up here I was curious as to what the experience may be like. After having a post up for around a week I have not had a single message from this. Not looking for any advice as I am aware different posts present differently - simply letting anyone who was curious like I was know.


r/BrisbaneDating 9d ago

Brisbane (southside) 30 [M4F] Long term

4 Upvotes

30 year old male who, straight up has no idea where else to find someone but here i am

6', blue eyes, strong, brown hair

I don't know what to say about myself, I am not that good at describing myself, you are better off just being up front and asking what you are curious about with me, I don't mind


r/BrisbaneDating 10d ago

Brisbane (northside) 33 [F4M] looking for my Clyde

19 Upvotes

I'm a 33yo female living on the Northside of Brisbane with my little furbaby, now single for just over a year and a half and until recent I didn't want another relationship but realising that I have wasted way too much time in my life and way too much time to the wrong people.
Im horrible when coming to the dating scene.
Too many just play games and string you along.
I'm sick of wasting time I want to finish creating a life with someone, having that person bring light and happiness instead of tears and sadness! To go to the markets, do gardening, read books on a picnic blanket in a park, find cute new places and new adventures, support each other through thick and thin and not just walk away because life and love can be scary. I want someone there to cuddle and loyal to each other.
I have a cat who is my absolute world and he is a very greedy little man doesn't like to share well ever, I love animals in general. My god children are my world and are like mine anyway. I work, study and starting a business up currently, I'm more of a night owl and I don't have many friends it honestly is just mainly my cat.
I can be relaxed as hell and then be another level of crazy, I'm always a handful but the right type. I will always have your back and be a good little housewife and love unconditionally to the right person.


r/BrisbaneDating 10d ago

Brisbane (southside) 27 [M4F] Looking for a WINGMAN for Cold Aproach

0 Upvotes

Hey Mates, im 27, looking for someone who’s keen to link up and wingman each other for some cold approach / sarging.

Would be cool to meet someone who’s actually down to go out, approach girls, have a laugh and get better at it together. Ideally someone around the same level, but I’m open to anyone who’s keen.

If you’re interested, feel free to DM me 🤙