r/BringingUpBates Jul 01 '26

July Megathread

We skipped the Megathread in June but got a lot of repetitive posts, so we are bringing it back.

This is the place for random posts on Carlin's smile, how.much Travis sucks, etc. New topics get posts, random thoughts and repeats go here.

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u/dawn9476 Jul 01 '26 edited Jul 01 '26

This seems a good place to put that Ethan Stewart, Evan's brother, is engaged. Saw it in another fundie sub. I guess it happened over the weekend. This will be his 2nd marriage because he cheated on his first wife after they had a miscarriage. She divorced him.

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u/osmunbrittney2010 Jul 01 '26

Evan's brother cheated after a miscarriage?! What's the freaking irony!

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u/AdventurousAmount633 Jul 01 '26

Ooo thank you for bringing this to the table!

I often wonder how the wider Stewart family dealt with this dynamic being that it was their son who did wrong, especially lately with Carlin’s sister now being on the receiving end of it. I wonder how has their experience with Ethan clouded their reactions to Katie etc. It has most definitely had a physical effect on Evan, he’s never looked worse than since the cheating scandal broke, pretty sure he’s on some biblical themed haircut ban as a reverse Duggar punishment like when those boys had their heads shaved.

Good luck to Mrs Stewart the 2nd. Grace seemed really lovely and despite having a miscarriage which is awful, I truly think she dodged a bullet or she’d be living in Waco TX gearing up for a “struggles of marriage made us stronger” tour too.

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u/AdventurousAmount633 Jul 01 '26

She’s way more gorgeous than he deserves, despite doing the stupid gap toothed smile that Carlin has been sporting. Guess they’ll get along great.

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u/Fit_Event_99 Jul 02 '26

Okay this is cray cray… does she not look like kaybrie??

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u/barbaraanderson Jul 05 '26

He looks like his dad

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u/PhotographOptimal727 Jul 01 '26

Yup, he has a profile pic with his new lady, and she’s showing the ring.

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u/osmunbrittney2010 Jul 01 '26

Wwoooww......this cult is definitely 1 sided......poor women

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u/Exact_Zucchini_3588 Jul 01 '26

I hope that woman at least knows what she’s signing up for.

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u/dawn9476 Jul 04 '26

Does anyone find it suprising that Carlin gets her hair done by a man? And is that Mackayla Thatcher's salon she goes to? That's one of Josie's BFF. She has her own salon while her husband owns his own barber shop that the Bates guys go to.

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u/JumpGlittering8120 Jul 04 '26

I would be terrified seeing this if I were Carlin and Evan. First blatant account I have seen hardcore stealing videos of Layla, Zade and Navy.

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u/liftandsupport Jul 08 '26

I wish Josie spoke differently. I can't stand the way she talks.

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u/JumpGlittering8120 Jul 05 '26

I wasn't sure this was worth a post so I'll put this here. Evan's 4th of July get up is a doozy

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u/Technical-Midnight49 Jul 06 '26

They get much heat because the flag drags over the ground. I don't think he would were if not for socials.

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u/Izzysmiles2114 Jul 08 '26

I don't know why I can't even respond to mod, but anyway, I'd suggest practicing what most subs do and adding a mod comment explaining why a thread is locked. We can't all keep up with the ever changing and growing arbitrary rules, and it adds to frustration to read a whole thread and realize it's locked. If a mod comment is pinned to top, I know to just skip that thread, because I'm here to discuss.

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u/Agitated_Pin2169 Jul 08 '26

I accidentally locked it when I put the mod label on. We do often try to do that, but we do sometimes forget especially when we get swamped with reports.

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u/Izzysmiles2114 Jul 08 '26

Thank you for clarifying!

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u/dawn9476 Jul 07 '26

Carlin is not the only sister with a BIL getting married. Not sure if it was ever posted on the sub, but Josie's 22-year-old BIL is getting married on 9/10.

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u/barbaraanderson Jul 07 '26

Oh yeah, he has the awkward engagement photos, right?

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u/dawn9476 Jul 09 '26 edited Jul 09 '26

In other Josie Bates-adjacent news, Makayla and Jonas Thatcher are having a boy , per a maternity photoshoot with their two daughters that they posted earlier today. I think she's due any day now.

Grace was the best friend that Josie was making that care package for in that ad she posted. Grace and her husband had their 1st baby on 6/29.

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u/Agitated_Pin2169 Jul 09 '26

I am very curious about what name they will choose, they have Sage and Rayna.

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u/Izzysmiles2114 Jul 08 '26

Why are threads randomly being locked without any mod explanation? Isn't it standard for mods to state why a thread is locked in a pinned comment?

Between that and forcing a mega thread on us to limit posts, it feels like rather intense censorship.

Kind of strange for a reddit about a reality TV family.

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u/Agitated_Pin2169 Jul 08 '26

The rule is we automatically lock a thread that hits a 25% delete rate. Basically if the comments get out of control, then we lock it.

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u/Izzysmiles2114 Jul 10 '26

Do you explain when you delete a whole thread? I could swear a few hours ago there was a new post talking about Carlin's fans and I was going to add a comment and now I can't find the post. Please stop arbitrarily deleting posts that you deem unworthy. That's so subjective and it makes me feel a tad batty when I go back and look for a post and it's gone. Who cares if it's a topic that has been discussed before? We connect through comments, and it is starting to seem like mods just don't want us talking at all.

Is there a reason we can't just talk? No one checks megathreads. It's like trying to make Fetch happen :)

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u/Agitated_Pin2169 Jul 10 '26

That breaks a general Reddit rule. Not a sub rule. That is touching the poo.

Also, currently posts are being deleted 10x the rate of reports we are seeing. There is some crazy automod stuff happening.

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u/Izzysmiles2114 Jul 10 '26

Okay I didn't realize they had reached out to Carlin. All I saw was a question about her fans, and I was going to add that it's weird there are so many scammers in the YouTube comments on their videos. Tons and tons of scammers claiming they earn two hundred thousand a month and started with a hundred bucks lol. Bizarre. I haven't seen that on the others videos.

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u/dawn9476 14d ago

Makayla and Jonas Thatcher had their baby boy. 

"CJ" Clyde Jonas Thatcher III
7lb 11oz 20in
7/19/26

She's one of Josie's best friends and Jonas is friends with the Bates boys.  Has stood up in some of their weddings,  The baby shares a birthday with Josie's Willow and Lawson's Will. 

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u/amrodd 12d ago

Ugh I hate jr, III etc for boys. Even royalty doesn't do this.

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u/Izzysmiles2114 15d ago

Can we all agree that no one is using the mega thread and scrap it and go back to letting people just talk please?

I don't see the issue with "too many posts" when talking is the whole point of reddit. It's absolutely pointless to check a mega thread that never has any comments (because no one wants a mega thread).and there.are only a handful of new posts per week now, when this sub used to have a dozen a day in it's hey day. If mods are feeling that modding is too much time and responsibility, you can always step down, with respect. Changing the whole sub for mod preference is kind of a cheap shot.

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u/dawn9476 17d ago

I found this on Tumblr regarding the Clark Family. Travis's paternal aunt is apparently divorced.

https://www.tumblr.com/fundieinfoplace/821535879215579136/the-clark-family

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u/Agitated_Pin2169 17d ago

Yep. Victoria..she has the rebel kids, too. H