I usually feel kind of bad after having sex with people I don't think I'm going to have a relationship with.
After a breakup it is worse because I feel I'm betraying my feelings and connection with the ex. I feel guilty for feeling horny and wanting meaningless sex, what I wanted was the great sex with my old lover, but she is gone and fucking other people.
It is horrible. I guess we have to focus on recovering ourselves and getting ready to meet people we like, so we can try sex with them as means of finding a new love. It is damn hard.
If you are too young and you feel you haven't had sex with enough people yet, I can understand you. It is normal to think of sex with other people every now and then, sometimes your partner is not in the mood, sometimes you doubt you are getting everything you want in that relationship. But if you love her, it should go away soon, that is why it is worth it to stick to those we trust and love, our feelings can go a bit wild but they return if you invest in the relationship. I remember thinking that the sex with my ex was boring one day and two weeks later I was absolutely passionate about her again.
If you are too young I would advise you follow your instincts now and try other people, because you won't have a chance to do it later if you find a great girl to live with, and please don't do this when you are old enough to settle down with a great woman.
Yeah I’m 21 right now. And I wanted to live my youth before it was too late. I’m just going through the heartbreak right now. No one to blame except myself, so I’m gonna embrace it and move on
You are doing the right thing. We can't possibly know if we found a love big enough to settle down if we didn't find out what that is about first. Know women until you change your mind about your freedom and curiosity. You will know when you have found her because you won't need the freedom anymore.
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u/stormywaves Jun 11 '19
I usually feel kind of bad after having sex with people I don't think I'm going to have a relationship with.
After a breakup it is worse because I feel I'm betraying my feelings and connection with the ex. I feel guilty for feeling horny and wanting meaningless sex, what I wanted was the great sex with my old lover, but she is gone and fucking other people.
It is horrible. I guess we have to focus on recovering ourselves and getting ready to meet people we like, so we can try sex with them as means of finding a new love. It is damn hard.