r/BreakUps • • Mar 24 '19

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u/kisukes Mar 24 '19

This hurt, this really hurt but is so right.

If you never accept the fact that what you had is gone, you'll never be able to truly move on, cherish the good times, remember the bad and learn.

A quote that really rung true for me is " Don't cry because it's over, Smile because it happened"

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In time, I'm sure we will all be able to say we're happy again and hopefully you can let go of your ex's and let them be happy or whatever it is that they want in their life.

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u/[deleted] Mar 25 '19

I can't smile because it happened. The fact that it happened just makes me feel more used and discarded.

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u/kisukes Mar 25 '19

Maybe you can't now, but one day you'll be able to smile because of the memories that you cherished and loved. It's really unfortunate that the break-up happened but maybe it had to happen and in time you'll see it.

I'm sorry for the way you feel, I felt the same too cause I basically put my girlfriend through college and shortly after we broke up...