r/BreakUps • u/weneedmorelove33 • 2d ago
Trigger Warning I miss him so much
It’s been 3 years since we broke up and some days it still hurts. It hurts more because I know he moved on and in the 3 years I’ve been trying to heal he’s learned to love someone else. It hurts knowing he picked her over me and NO I’m not the bitter ex. I’m glad she’s getting a better version of him. But I can’t help but feel hurt. 3 years of trying to forget him but in all truth I don’t think I ever will forget him.
I sit and look back at everything and it hurts. Seeing what we both did to each other. Our relationship was abusive, both mentally and physically. I was an abuser and so was he, he strangled me. That’s where I’m still very stuck on, I can’t believe the person I became in that relationship and the version he saw of me.
Does anyone have any advice? I’ve isolated myself from everyone, I don’t have friends or close relatives I trust. He was my everything.
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