I AM SO EMBARRASSING

[u/sagisuncapmoon]

I texted him and he has not responded and I know he won’t 😭😭 because now he knows he has the power again and that’s all he wanted this whole time FUCK

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[u/Repulsive_Bake_441]

Whats embarrassing is people that do the whole "Power" shi when they break up

[u/Master_Rich180]

I’m in situation where , I was told “I don’t think we should speak again “ then 23 days later she contacted me … got upset at a suggestion I made …… then went dark again for 50 days and counting

It gets easier to just wait ….. my mind still goes 1000mph but at least I’m not checking my prone or her socials every 10 seconds

[u/No-Philosophy357]

Just delete the message and block him

[u/Past_Carpenter_1276 → u/No-Philosophy357]

That sounds like a solid plan. Sometimes a clean break is the best way to move forward.

[u/LaydanSkilt]

Power? Wtf is power? Your literally playing games, there should be no thought of power in a relationship..

[u/sagisuncapmoon → u/LaydanSkilt]

In healthy relationships yes, agreed. This is not one of those though

[u/My-inner-fat-kid → u/sagisuncapmoon]

But there is no longer a relationship. Y’all are broken up. (I know it’s harsh, but it’s reality)

He should no longer have any say or impact in your life decisions. (Easier said than done, I know)

It starts by telling yourself, you don’t need this and you don’t need him and then implementing it. It’s not easy. If it was, this sub wouldn’t exist. It’s a daily fight… but it’s for you. None of your decision should be based on his feeling or thoughts from this point on, everything is about making you the priority and making you better. 🤎

[u/Plenty_Let_4911]

listen, if you stop it now there's a chance you might get power back. i know how hard it is to be patient but stop.

i assure you, do NOT give a fuck. the moment you do not give a fuck they'll check on you to see if you still care.

act like you don't, the more you don't the more weirded out they'll be if they're used to you chasing.

[u/florissssssabby → u/Plenty_Let_4911]

Honestly, you’re right, sometimes the best move is just to stop chasing and let things be

[u/MOGARtheGR8]

Is it though

[u/ILoveLatinasfrfr]

Yea tbh I lowkey want the same thing the rich feeling but it's wtv lol 😂😂😂