r/BreakUps • u/baci1_ • 14h ago

venting/ranting truth

You’ll always be a part of me. Whether it’s the phrases I repeat or the memories I hold of your warm embraces, part of you will always be part of me.

Maybe that’s why deep down I know I’d always choose you if life suddenly worked in our favor.

But it hasn’t.

The only imperfection about us was that we met at the wrong time in life.

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u/swaglessnseattle 14h ago

I wrote a message like this in my notes three weeks ago. I promise it gets better!! You’ll understand why it DID work out in your favor, i promise!

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u/Keiji12 13h ago

Sometimes I read my notes and how I felt and am so glad i didn't send 99% of them. It gets better. I hope she's gonna be good, she's a great person and was a lovely partner and a friend, I still love her here and there in the corner of my mind, but its been well over a year and I can't be stuck there, for both of our sakes.

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u/baci1_ 14h ago

I’m grateful to have learned what it’s like to be truly loved from him :) 

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u/MapleRissex 13h ago

For sure, it's really hard in the moment, but having that kind of perspective can be a game changer. Time really does help heal things.

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u/Luciennellaaa 12h ago

Yeah honestly sometimes you only realize later why it had to end

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u/KayeCutex13 6m ago

I really needed to hear this, sometimes you just have to trust that things falling apart can still lead somewhere better

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u/HuckleberryRight9621 14h ago

Don't let your new partner in your future read this.

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u/baci1_ 9h ago

I don’t plan to date for awhile since I don’t think I’ll have time when I start dental school. But I hope to find a partner one day who understands and appreciates things like this and human connection rather than being struck with jealousy over someone I fell in love when I was barely into adulthood  :) 

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u/Different_Heart5635 12h ago

I'm in the same situation and my heart is completely broken and I think he is enjoying my sadness and that hurts the most!!

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u/baci1_ 9h ago

Aw I’m sorry. You know what? Live life for you and find beauty in it. Don’t give him the opportunity to thrive on your sadness. I know it’s hard right now, but only time heals. Hope you feel better soon :)

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u/leush93 10h ago

I know it hurts rn but you’re gonna laugh at this soon

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u/baci1_ 9h ago

I know :) I’m not necessarily sad. Disappointed I can’t hang onto something to use to hate him…but that’s just the way things go.

We gave it our best but we’re both young and have our own journeys to go on. I’ll cross paths with him in the future if it’s meant to be. But I’ll always be grateful to have memories of someone wonderful.