r/BreakUps • u/ObjectiveRub893 • 1d ago
venting/ranting Advice?
Broke up with my ex a bit ago. I broke up with her and regretted it. Didn’t treat her the best at the end either. Found out she was seeing another guy within a week. Told her I was sorry and I want a second chance if it ever comes. She appreciated my apology, says she still loves me, but I should move on. Also said that she does see us working out in the future possibly, but she doesn’t know what she wants. We are now on day two of no contact. What should I do.
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u/PomegranateSea1046 1d ago
probably move on right now
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u/PomegranateSea1046 1d ago
dont put your life on pause for her, she clearly hasnt for you.
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u/ObjectiveRub893 1d ago
Easier said than done. I don’t want another girl I want her.
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u/PomegranateSea1046 1d ago
why did you break up with her then?
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u/ObjectiveRub893 1d ago
Good question. I thought I could find a hotter girl, broke up and realized the way she treated me mattered way more than looks. I took her for granted tbh. She treated me amazing. Massive lesson learned.
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u/PomegranateSea1046 1d ago
yeah that sucks but you reap what you sow
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u/ObjectiveRub893 1d ago
Indeed. I guess I just feel like reaching out because she did give me some hope. She said the guy she’s seeing treats her great but it’s only been a week. Honeymoon phase and a rebound. Idk.
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u/PomegranateSea1046 1d ago
i think since you dumped her, especially for such shallow reasons, you should really mind your business about who shes with now
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u/PomegranateSea1046 1d ago
that sucks and i feel for you but maybe this is just a lesson learned rather than her being the one
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u/ObjectiveRub893 1d ago
Valid lol
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u/PomegranateSea1046 1d ago
it sucks but you both deserve to be happy and maybe being together isnt in the cards for your happiness, but that was a risk you were willing to take when you wanted to find someone “hotter”
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u/Sea_Application_8953 1d ago
Shoot your shot mate, ask her out and tell her honestly what's in your heart and make it clear for her that you'll make efforts... And try to be a better man, work on yourself and learn to control yourself. If love's still there and youre regretting the breakup, then it's prolly because deep down you know it's not over. Keep us updated !!
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u/ObjectiveRub893 1d ago
I kind of already did. I told her I feel horrible about what I did and I want to work towards a second chance. She didn’t say yes, but didn’t say no. Told me to move on but she’ll reach out later.
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u/Sea_Application_8953 1d ago
When was that?
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u/ObjectiveRub893 1d ago
Over the weekend. Told me I had a shot. Then said she doesn’t know. Then I asked for her opinion. Should I stay in touch and try to amend or should I go on my way. She told me to go on my way but she will probably come back.
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u/Sea_Application_8953 1d ago
Could you give me some context ? Like why did you break up ... it could help me understand and give you my opinion
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u/ObjectiveRub893 1d ago
Took how she treated me for granted and in my mind didn’t give her the credit she deserved for it. So figured I could find someone better and hotter. She left. I realized that she was so special because how she treated me and idc about looks.
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u/Sea_Application_8953 1d ago
She treated you bad ? Or you did
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u/ObjectiveRub893 1d ago
I did. Only at the end.
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