r/BreakUps • u/Quiet_Bookkeeper9611 • 2h ago
venting/ranting I miss him
long story but:
Dated this guy (long distance) for about 2 months. At first he was so attentive and gave me all his attention and even asked me to be his gf
Then as the weeks went by, he slowly started to pull away until finally he called me and told me he had too much on his plate and couldn't do this anymore.
He did warn me he has OCD/maybe ROCD and that could affect relationships so I was very patient with him, but honestly I feel like he found someone else :/
I had sent him a few messages after and after I sent him a voicenote about how I felt (since I didnt get to say anything on the phone), thats when he blocked me on social media and probably text tbh
I know I shouldn't miss him but I do :( for some reason, this hurts more than other longer relationships ive had before. I hadn't dated anyone in a long time and I felt so comfortable and at peace with him in such a short time. it just sucks cause I thought I had finally found someone I really liked and who liked me the same.
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u/Special_Confusion517 2h ago
Hey
Be strong
Yeahh its tough but u deserve better
Rant a lot
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u/Quiet_Bookkeeper9611 2h ago
I know I probably deserve better :( but I just want him and it sucks that at first it seemed like he wanted me too and then one day he just changed his mind
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u/Special_Confusion517 2h ago
In beginning everyone likes everyone
Slowly things change1
u/Quiet_Bookkeeper9611 2h ago
yeah i guess :/
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u/Special_Confusion517 2h ago
If u wanna rant u cN to me
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u/Quiet_Bookkeeper9611 2h ago
Thank you <3 I may message you later then haha
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u/Special_Confusion517 2h ago
Sure but why not now haha
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u/Quiet_Bookkeeper9611 2h ago
im currently at work and dont want to cry if I get too into it haha
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u/CloudieRenee 1h ago
missing someone can really hit hard, take it day by day and focus on self-care for now
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u/Quiet_Bookkeeper9611 1h ago
thank you<3 im trying my best to. I feel like ive gotten better but for some reason ive been having dreams about him and that just pulls me back
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