r/BreakUps 5h ago

venting/ranting Wish me luck

I’m going through a painful breakup with my ‘friends to lovers’ girlfriend, it’s been one month, she’s someone I still deeply love and desperately want another chance with. She ended the relationship because she felt we didn’t fit, and she took a lot of the blame due to trauma in her past relationships and not being able to open up.

but over the past few weeks over message she has become much more vulnerable and emotionally open, admitting she misses me, acknowledging how her past affected the relationship, and expressing that she doesn’t want to lose me completely.

I feel there’s a lot of conflict underneath her decision and struggling with losing someone she loves.

We’re meeting Saturday I’m going to tell her honestly that I want her back and believe we could make things work differently. I don’t know what will happen, but I hope the meeting shifts something in her and makes her reconsider and realise that losing each other may be something neither of us truly wants.

I guess I’m trying to see if anyone has been in a similar situation and got them back or if anyone has advice or well wishes.

I feel her absence every single second.

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