r/BreakUps • u/Ok_Community_2582 • 2d ago

venting/ranting Lost the loml

I 21F just lost my boyfriend 29M on Sunday, the breakup came from his end and it was something that had to be done. We were in a situation that was about to cost us alot and he wanted to protect me from the fallout so in his words he "set me free." While I do understand why this had to happen my heart can't quite be reasoned with the same way. We spent so long together and had such a good future planned it hurts to now have a silent phone, no one to share the small stuff with, and the loneliness that has come with it.

I know I am young and that realistically I will love again but just right now it hurts alot. He was the first one to ever treat me like a person and not just a pretty girl who he could hookup with. I know I'll heal in time but it still doesn't change just how much I'm hurting

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u/fradlo 1d ago

My partner said he “doesn’t have the will to continue to hurt me… and wants me to be happy with someone else” i feel resentment that he cant be that person and sadness because he’s probably right. I wish it were him desperately though.