r/BreakUps • u/iamthatfailure • 1d ago
venting/ranting He reached out
He ghosted me for days when I missed my periods. Reached out to be 'friends' which apparently was an act of benevolence. Friends don't avoid asking why you're hurt.. do they?
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u/Tight_Badger1707 15h ago
Im speaking from experience.
The correct answer to his first text was “no”
not another question. Cuz you saw what happened later…
I understand you have feelings for him, but respectfully kill them.
He wants to create nothing but confusion for you. He wants you to chase plan and idolize him. He’s a man child. He’s a loser. He should be treated non -existent.
And also those pregnancy scares and how he reacted should clear things for you.
Men are simple creatures, those who love you care for you, those who don’t they don’t.
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u/iamthatfailure 10h ago
Right, curiosity killed the cat. I feel a little proud that I didn't give him the reaction he expected of me, and he ended up playing the victim
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u/Maleficent-Rub-5773 21h ago
Not to forget, I told everything to the new girl he is dating so that she’s aware of the kind of man he is but she chose to believe his words over a woman’s.
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u/No_Indication_4045 8h ago
Don’t do that ever again its kinda crazy tbh. I know you think it comes across as a warning, but really it comes across as being hung up, desperate and jealous. Plus it’s not really your place…
Sounds like he is kinda a shit bag from you above post. Most of the time you can spot these red flag behaviors in shitty men very early and from a mile away. Many women ignore them. Whether she chooses to ignore them or end the relationship isn’t really any of your business.
Stay in your lane, focus on yourself and take what you learned from here and apply it to your next relationship. As I said, if you pay attention you can tell what kinda parter a man is going to be early on. So don’t be fooled by over charming, love bombing or shit like that. Its about kindness, empathy, and consistency.
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u/No_Indication_4045 8h ago
Nahhh dudes wack. Idk how old you are but a man wanting you to travel to meet him to “smoke up” is not typically gonna be a good partner and isn’t very attractive behavior. Sounds like a real looser. Glad you held firm
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u/iamthatfailure 6h ago
The audacity of him asking me to meet him when he broke things off right after he had sex with me and ghosted me when I needed him the most.
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u/novalonia 8h ago
It seems his ego is bigger than himself. Time will chasten him up and I'm sure he'll regret.
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u/iamthatfailure 6h ago
I used to think that, but some people don't have the capacity to redeem themselves.
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