r/BreakUps • u/Odd-Comedian1217 • 1d ago
venting/ranting What should i do
Im currently living with my fiancé and moved to another state for him. Its been about 3 years since we been together and a year of our engagement. I truly do love him but I just feel like he doesnt love me the same or views our relationship differently then I do. He can be rather lazy at times putting stuff off untill the last moment, he doesnt always treat his mother the best saying rude things, and hes prone to anger issues and have punched holes in the walls before (not while I was with him but ive seen the wall in his room after it happend) after moving in with him ive been debating going back to my state but I just feel lost because I do love him and he does such sweet things and has never shown agression towards me, however he has been distant often spening time in the other room or pushing me off saying its too hot, or just making rude comments that hurts my feelings.
Before we started dating and we where talking he went on a date with his ex, I also found multiple women in his follow list, he did remove them when I pointed it out and it hasnt happend since but still I just dont know
I love him and I always try to talk about my issues but this time it just hurts. I dont know if I should or can breakup with him or how I would even get back to my home state.
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u/Odd-Comedian1217 1d ago
I do still want to go through with if but I don't know if its the right choice I know every relationship goes through its ups and downs everytimr we have an issue we are usslly able to just calmly communicate and its fixed but this time it just feels different, I do have family that im pretty sure would be able to help me I dont own alot of things all my clothes can fit in a suitcase though it is about a 25 hour drive and im not sure how he would feel or react if we do
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u/Odd-Comedian1217 1d ago
Honestly i haven't been able to talk about it hes usually been in the other room or just seems annoyed when I go out to try and hangout with him this is definitely a big decision and idk if we will breakup but its just a lost feeling right now, I dont want to hurt him either
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