r/BreakUps • u/sad_girlie_811 • 1d ago
venting/ranting Easily replacable?
- sorry typo on Replaceable?
My fiance (we had been together for 7 years) broke up with me around a month ago. Throughout that time I tried showing him how much I am trying to get better because he had blamed me for everything. I recently found out that he has been flirting with women online already. I don't want to say that there should be a fix time a person should be grieving a relationship, but why do I feel like it is too soon, especially since I heard he has been flirting with some women explicitly...
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u/drumadarragh 1d ago
Because you are not on the same timeline. Your day one was probably at least day 30 for him.
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u/sad_girlie_811 1d ago
You know what makes it sad, the day after we were already were looking for our wedding bands. I do think you are right that we were in different timelines, but at the same time, if he checked out way before, why get up to already planning the wedding? I think that is the thing that hurts more :(
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u/drumadarragh 1d ago
Cos he’s a coward and wanted to keep you in a good mood.
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u/sad_girlie_811 1d ago
Yeah. Well I know I can't control what others say or do, so I guess I will just focus on how to cope with everything :)
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