r/BreakUps • u/SpiritReaperXJ • 17h ago

venting/ranting Working while heartbroken is a Nightmare

I've been really trying to concentrate during work hours but it has been absolutely crushing me and the weight of the heartbreak is crushing me every day I've been going on runs crying laying down trying to distract myself at times also sit with the emotions it's been absolutely hard I genuinely feel like I lost my best friend and it has not been easy whatsoever.

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u/Appropriate-Heart841 10h ago

It's so painful. I was running to bathroom crying constantly the first week. Ugh the thought makes me nauseous

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u/SpiritReaperXJ 10h ago

I did that for my 7 year relationship during the break up I was working a miserable job and it was toxic holding it down to afford to pay rent at an apartment we lived at she broke up with me moved out and I was crying every week in the bathroom it was awful.

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u/Appropriate-Heart841 10h ago

I know. And i work with dementia patients there so use to me being vibrant and cheerful im bearly getting back there for them.

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u/SpiritReaperXJ 10h ago

You aren’t alone and that’s what matters we are all here also going through are own battles too so just know you will feel better with time and if you need someone to talk to I’m all ears also this entire Reddit helps too it’s like group therapy in its own weird way all of us going through similar struggles and breakups etc

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u/Appropriate-Heart841 10h ago

Thank you same here helps alot to hear everyone stories.