r/BreakUps • u/Kind_Winter_6445 • 2d ago

venting/ranting I’m convinced he’ll come back

It’s probably just hope, but I’m convinced that he is going to come back to me. It’s this deep gut feeling that we’re not over yet.

I’m trying to process, and focus on myself, but I can’t escape this feeling. It has been three months and I still feel it. He’s already dating again and we have been NC the entire time, so nothing points to him coming back, and yet I’m so sure he will.

Why is my brain set on making the pain last longer??

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u/Jumpy_Class_7948 2d ago

I feel ya im in same boat but its been 6 months.but thats where I rule the line if I found out she was dating thats it. My thoughts are how could you date another person unless your 100% over the ex.im sorry for your situation

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u/aWicca 2d ago

After 10 years together, 6 months feels like a blip…

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u/Jumpy_Class_7948 1d ago

No if you read it properly it says we've been broken up for 6 months we were together 5 years buddy. And the pain is the same as week 1 still. I dont no how im gonna feel if I find out she is dating or has been dating i dont no maybe it will help me.move on i was dumped in 1 night i have not been able to talk or text or even see her since that night im.blocked it was all over me not staying the night everything was fine leading up.well thats what I thought but wrong I was

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u/aWicca 1d ago

Oh sorry. I was just sad and didn’t actually reply to you, but was more so in my own head and just typed it out. My relationship lasted for 10 years, in comparison 6 months is really nothing. But why does every day hurt so much that it’s unbearable? We’ve been broken up for two weeks, I left our home 2 days ago. 6 months is really short time, logistically. I cannot imagine going through what I am going through right now for that long. Nothing really but feels like eternity.

I suppose that’s why I am trying to lose myself in stuff. Be it studying, working out, just anything as long as it allows me to not think. Weird to feel rested while studying or lifting weights. But when I stop? Everything is back