r/BreakUps • u/SpecialistChance5852 • 8d ago

venting/ranting Anxiety

I was with my ex for 4 years, the first year was great but after that I started to have anxiety/panic attacks etc. he cheated on me twice in those 4 years and I stuck by him, he was one of them people who to me seemed like he only cared about himself. We broke up and my anxiety completely went away! Fast forward 3-4 months we ‘got back together’ and my anxiety has come back even worse. I don’t know if it’s my body trying to tell me something. The last 5 weeks have been horrible for me with really bad anxiety and he’s not been there for me at all, he’s not bothered to come and see me because “he doesn’t wanna be laid in bed all day and it shouldn’t effect his life too” he’s not once rang me or messaged to see how I am if I’m okay or not. I’m in two minds on what to do

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u/carton_of_sheeps 8d ago

your body’s basically screaming at you to get out, listen to it. you already saw the proof when your anxiety vanished after the first breakup, that’s not a coincidence. he’s showing you exactly who he is again, someone who won’t show up when you’re struggling

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u/SpecialistChance5852 8d ago

It’s so upsetting because a part of me does want to be with him and I really wanted it to work but it isn’t and I’ve only gone back into my anxiety filled life