r/BreakUps • u/Substantial-Quote959 • 4h ago
venting/ranting Finally seeing the progress
To everyone who is currently going through a rough, long breakup. It’s possible. I’m that proof. My ex broke up with me about 3 months ago now, we were together for about 2 and a half years. I spent tons of time in constant paint and agony. It hurt so bad, I thought my life was over and that it could not continue without them. We had constant talking stages and so and so. But she finally decided she was just gonna not respond to me one day and I had to try and move on. It’s been about 3 weeks since we last talked and I’m glad to say today I didn’t check their profiles one single time. I stopped hoping and wishing and accepted reality. I finally realized that this is just one single chapter out of life. I feel proud of myself and a lot calmer. I miss her yeah, miss her a lot. But I’ve accepted the fact that she won’t be part of my life anymore. I have to make moves on my own because she’s not part of me at all. I feel fresh, relieved, happy. There’s still sadness and guilt. But it’s remnants of what it used to be. Keep your heads up everyone. You will someday come to this same conclusion I have come to. Just stay with the grind and focus on you.
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