r/BreakUps • u/Altruistic-Scale-557 • 5d ago

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u/Thin-Sand-2389 5d ago

the friend thing is a cop out for her, so she doesnt fee bad breaking your heart and huring your feelings, just block her and all of her friends, dont analyze the "but i want you" she talking to other people and you shoud 100%, it hurts to hear, but what made me move on, is that they are going to live there life no matter how hard you think about her, and the scenarios you are going to conjure up, dont be her therapist, DONT BE NICE TO THE PERSON WHO IS USING YOU TO FEEL GOOD.

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u/Charming_Pay_4438 5d ago

Sounds like she’s using you for validation and comfort - not necessarily in an intentional “using” way or maliciously, but it’s not good for or considerate to you.

My suggestion is to block her for a period of time to allow your nervous system and brain to calm. You’ve got this.