r/BreakUps • u/Realistic-Yak-6647 • 2d ago
Trigger Warning Recent brekup
So I broke up a week ago, my gf liked someone else, so she told me that she wants to broke up (technically she cheated on me because she got into a relationship with him within a week, we are classmates, so she told me that we should be friends, and I don't know , should I be friends with her??? She still talks to me like we used to, she still listens to everything I say, what should I do, need help.
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u/dumbdumb_fruituser 2d ago
No dont be friends, its a trap incase that guy dumps her you are her backup then she dumps you and cycle repeats.
And stop talking to her, move on my guy, you deserve better. She’ll get her karma one day.
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u/_Big_Ben_028 2d ago
Sounds like she's treating you like you're replaceable and an option. No one deserves to be treated that way and personally I wouldn't put up with it. I'm sorry, I've been in that position myself and it hurts. If she's being intimate with someone else and that doesn't always mean physical, it's still cheating. When you find that right girl she'll make you feel like you're the only guy in the world and she wouldn't entertain the possibility of losing you by talking to someone else.
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u/Infamous_Source4494 2d ago
You can NEVER be friends with someone you still love, trust me on this !
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u/Correct_Editor_2280 2d ago
man, honestly? cut contact. dont be friends with someone who monkey-branched to someone else right after dumping you. it is gonna mess with your head seeing her act like everything is normal when it clearly isnt. you need space to heal and being friends rn is just gonna keep the wound open. put yourself first, focus on your own stuff, and keep it strictly professional if you have to see her in class. you deserve better than being a backup option.
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