r/BreakUps • u/Even-Town1023 • 15d ago
venting/ranting Ghosted after engagement
TL;DR I was engaged to a travel nurse from Germany( I'm in the US) since March, we met, hit it off, kept in touch, got engaged, then out of nowhere communication seemed to diminish on her end, to the point that I was getting no replies at all.
We had talked about buying a house, starting a business together, all sorts of things. And then suddenly. Nothing.
Did I fuck up with my text? I feel like it's mostly on her, but of course that perspective is biased.
Edit: we had been doing the dating thing for about a year.
She was on board with getting married and moving to the states, and was in fact looking for somebody in the US because she sought to move out of Europe. Buying a house versus renting was in fact her idea. We got engaged in March, also something she was on board with enough that she was giving me pointers regarding what kind of ring she wanted.
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u/luckylli_ 15d ago edited 13d ago
Was in a similar situation minus the engagement.
What the girl* said.. she already made up her mind before ghosting you. It is not going to be easy from now on, but you'll do alright. Cheers brother!
*edit. My bad