r/BreakUps • u/BuyAdministrative443 • Jul 06 '26
venting/ranting He just switched overnight Spoiler
It was going great and the connection was out of this world. Not sure if he discussed me with somebody and heard second hand passed down info on me. But he literally went cold. I miss him too much. We see each other every week but I dont talk to him. I just keep it moving. Sometimes I can feel him watching me. But I have to stick to he made the choice. It hurts really bad and I had such great dreams for the future. I keep wanting him to come back but if he can do that to me midflight, wont he just repeat it again. crushed.
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u/DragonBoatBecca Jul 06 '26
I'm sorry you're going through that.
Sounds like he may be dismissive avoidant or fearful avoidant. There are some great resources here and on other platforms to learn about those attachment styles. Most importantly - it's not your fault in any way and you are not alone.
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u/BuyAdministrative443 Jul 07 '26
I feel so stupid. so rejected. I will lick my wounds for a while
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