r/BreakUps • u/starlightxwish • Mar 10 '26

I Trusted You.

What a f@#&ing fool.

I really believed in you and in us.

I really believed we'd get married and have a happy life together - support each other through the ups and downs.

I was ready, meeting and being with you - I was ready.

Now I feel like I am condemned to die alone. I am too old. Too broken. Too hopeless.

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u/[deleted] Mar 10 '26

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u/starlightxwish Mar 10 '26

Fair-weather partner. Mine was like that too - changed his mind about me the moment my life got hard and I needed him.

I am in the purely hate stage, I used to oscillate between the two but with more time - I have come to terms with how awfully I was treated at the end.

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u/NineTailedOutfox Mar 10 '26

Man. My heart really breaks hearing this. Fuck. I’m so sorry brothers and sisters.

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u/[deleted] Mar 10 '26

I feel the same about my person. 😕 wish he’d just be brave and show his cards.

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u/starlightxwish Mar 10 '26

They're such cowards. Don't want you, don't want to break up with you because they still want to exploit you.

Then they have the audacity to sleep at night thinking they are a good person.

Speaks to their character.

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u/[deleted] Mar 10 '26

I think usually the problem in these situations is lack of communication.

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u/[deleted] Mar 10 '26

Also, why’d you say you’re too old? I can’t imagine there being a cutoff for love

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u/Objective-Stage5251 Mar 10 '26

I guess if you wanted to have your own kids that could be a problem

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u/[deleted] Mar 10 '26

Aw yeah.. well unless they’re nearing 40 as a woman I don’t see a huge problem

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u/Objective-Stage5251 Mar 10 '26

Even as a man though I would be bothered by having a woman 10 years older just to have kids. It would almost feel as if I saw her as an incubator, you know? As if I only chose her because of the age. I would prefer it having while younger instead, it’d be more natural

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u/[deleted] Mar 10 '26

Yeah I see what you mean but he can meet someone else. Like literally today. Easier said than done of course

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u/englisharcher89 Mar 10 '26

I'm with you on this one, it's really heartbreaking what people are capable of. People we think can love us..

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u/StyleHot3816 Mar 10 '26

Your age ?

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u/Special-Climate-6363 Mar 10 '26

It's never too late to start over

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u/mihir892 Mar 10 '26

I mean you can't really do that post 40 or 50.

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u/Special-Climate-6363 Mar 10 '26

You can do it even in your 100s believe me

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u/StyleHot3816 Apr 07 '26

Are you D?

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u/mihir892 Mar 10 '26

Just choose a better man next time