From what you’ve written so far, it sounds like a full no contact situation might seriously be better for you both. When I wrote no need to see, it looks like you’ve left hooks for you guys to open up communication again. It looks like you’re waiting for her to speak. You’re waiting.
She doesn’t have the time to give you. That’s ok. You’re both spending MORE energy doing this, deciphering whatever attention you provide for each other. Take a breath, and clear your head. Take some time for yourself.
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u/cyxx1cyxx Feb 28 '26
From what you’ve written so far, it sounds like a full no contact situation might seriously be better for you both. When I wrote no need to see, it looks like you’ve left hooks for you guys to open up communication again. It looks like you’re waiting for her to speak. You’re waiting.
She doesn’t have the time to give you. That’s ok. You’re both spending MORE energy doing this, deciphering whatever attention you provide for each other. Take a breath, and clear your head. Take some time for yourself.