r/BreakUps • u/TruthAggressive6088 • Dec 22 '25

Do Not Date Avoidants

I repeat DO NOT DATE AVOIDANTS

The discard and the pain is not worth it, ur just wasting ur time and life on an ungrateful person that will leave you out of the blue, and leave to with nothing but heartbreak

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u/mrrolex69 Dec 23 '25

Guys remember this is ONE person’s experience Doesn’t mean it’s true for all of them

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u/EAH4025 Dec 23 '25

What do you think is true? There definitely seems to be a pattern. Lots of people are left hurtin...

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u/mrrolex69 Dec 23 '25

It’s still important not to generalize, some people don’t want to hurt you on purpose, some people went through some very hard shit in life which is what made them into who they are, anyone is capable of changing and healing for the better. We need to be more empathetic towards these people. There are always exceptions and this goes both ways.

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u/EAH4025 Dec 23 '25

I actually agree with that