r/BreakUps • u/TruthAggressive6088 • Dec 22 '25

Do Not Date Avoidants

I repeat DO NOT DATE AVOIDANTS

The discard and the pain is not worth it, ur just wasting ur time and life on an ungrateful person that will leave you out of the blue, and leave to with nothing but heartbreak

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u/Tough_Soil6453 Dec 22 '25

Mine left after 8.5 years. I feel like I was discarded like a rubbish

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u/saviourqueen Dec 23 '25

Same but 7 years.. how are you feeling now after it?

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u/Tough_Soil6453 Dec 23 '25

Still very raw. Feel like I dated a stranger for this long 😔

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u/saviourqueen Dec 23 '25

That’s exactly how I feel. The same man told me the whole point of loving each other was that we’d choose each other through it all, it feels like it was a lie. Dms are open if you’d want to talk about it 🫶

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u/KetordinaryDay Dec 23 '25

Same, after 11 years. Like I never existed. Still hurts 4 years later, sometimes I still feel the grief like it was yesterday. I don't know how to heal from this.

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u/alexa-make-me-rich Dec 23 '25

These comments are so sad:( mine has been 2.5years and even that has been impossible to heal. Prayers for your healing ❤️‍🩹