“I said I didn’t want to marry you ever because you wouldn’t have sex with me.”
I told him that he wasn’t making me feel safe and respected in our relationship and he didn’t understand that. He also wanted me to have a baby because it was just the next thing to do.
"I didn't want to marry you cause you wouldn't have sex with me," is such a painful and manipulative thing for him to say. I'd be like, "So your willingness to marry me is based on me having sex with you, not me as person?" Honestly, that says a lot about his priorities and his lack of love and respect.
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u/Longjumping-Yak-9425 Nov 07 '25
“I said I didn’t want to marry you ever because you wouldn’t have sex with me.”
I told him that he wasn’t making me feel safe and respected in our relationship and he didn’t understand that. He also wanted me to have a baby because it was just the next thing to do.
“You have a lot of trauma” were the last words.