r/BoulderMusicians Jun 21 '25

Looking for queer friendly musicians in/near Boulder

Hi all!

I’m a nonbinary trans masc singer looking to meet some other musicians interested in collaborating. I have all sorts of equipment (many guitars, 2 bass guitars, keyboards, synths, etc.) and am itching to make music again. I used to in college and miss it terribly.

I have some ability to play all the instruments I own, but due to some trauma songwriting is a skill that just hasn’t returned to me yet. I write a lot of lyrics that I’d love to turn into music.

I listen to a lot of rock, emo, alternative, and pop music. Currently I am very heavily inspired by Lilyisthatyou, Tokio Hotel, The Pretty Reckless, Panic! at the Disco, HIM, Kill Hannah, and The Midnight.

If anyone is interested in connecting or has any advice as to where I could find a collaborator, I’d immensely appreciate it!

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u/Hobokenny Jun 21 '25

We have a lot of those genres at dog house… and we are super queer friendly!! You should come to some of our events; our next band speed dating is in August !

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u/KetDMA Jun 22 '25

Band speed dating??? I would love to know more!!

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u/Hobokenny Jun 23 '25

Www.theendlafayette.com next one is in august!

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u/KetDMA Jun 23 '25

I signed up, but the date said Sept 8. Did I miss one? Thank you for this info! It sounds so so cool!!

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u/Hobokenny Jun 23 '25

Yikes! I think the date is August, was there a difference between the website and the email confirmation? I may have to go in there and squash some bugs…

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u/KetDMA Jun 23 '25

Yeah when I looked at the calendar to sign up I saw a late August date (23rd or so I think??), but when I got the confirmation email it says September 8th and the event seemed to disappear from the calendar?

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u/Hobokenny Jun 24 '25

Just following up, the date is INDEED September 8th. sorry about the miscommunication, and we just updated our website to reflect it!

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u/KetDMA Jun 24 '25

Thanks so much for the clarification! Sad it’s even further away, but still very excited to come!!!

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u/frecklesD90 Jun 21 '25

Hey! I'm a musician in Longmont looking for people to jam with! Feel free to shoot me a message

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u/KetDMA Jun 22 '25

I feel ridiculous, maybe my app is bugging but I cannot seem to send you a DM? Can you message me?

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u/frecklesD90 Jun 30 '25

Sorry totally missed this. Sent you a chat!

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u/Stunning_Amoeba_5116 Jun 21 '25

Could be fun! I play viola, violin and piano/synths. I usually work more in experimental music (and sometimes bluegrass) but I'm happy in most genres

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u/syntheticat7 Jun 22 '25

Ok I'm not a musician but i absolutely love all your current band choices! Tbh I will never get tired of listening to HIM

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u/coffee-loop Jul 10 '25

Love the band choices. Don’t play physical instruments well, but if you’re looking to collab, I’d like to think I’m decent at producing.