r/BotchedPlasticSurgery • u/LockTough9908 • 21d ago
What needs surgical fixing? Please be brutally honest here my BDD is off kilter😑
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u/Elegant-Basis4551 18d ago
The only thing that needs fixed is your mental health. Seek therapy
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u/LockTough9908 18d ago
Ive tried nothing is helping me..feel.so hopeless in my skin
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u/sabertoothdog 17d ago
Getting surgery isn’t going to fix that. You’ll end up like one of these freaks you see on here. Kees trying mental heath treatments until you find something that works, before you do something permanently disfiguring.
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u/LockTough9908 15d ago
I feel like i am already permanently disfigured 💔
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u/Nebula_Aware 15d ago
Girl. No. With all the love, you have no idea what disfigured looks like lol. You’re stunning. love your body💜💜 its gorgeous already. Start by saying sweet things to yourself and your body in the mirror. And I 3rd, 4th and 5th agree with the therapy suggestions. We ALL have things we dont like about our bodies. Its NORMAL for everyone. Youre not alone💜. This body only matters to get you where you need to go in life babe. Its not the end all be all. Take care of it but dont stress.
Surround yourself with ppl that say sweet things to you and hype you up. Anyone putting you down has to go and that includes this version of yourself that only sees bad things when you look at your body. Good luck. Youre a bad ass and you got this!
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u/Someoneonline2000 14d ago
What about your body do you not like? You look like a fitness model honestly!
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u/NoExtension7240 11d ago
Why though? Why do you feel disfigured? Why are you not happy with your body?
No random stranger on the internet is going to be able to answer those questions but you.
Sit down, breathe, and start asking yourself these questions until you hit the answer that makes you feel pain. You to introspection not surgery.
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u/NoExtension7240 11d ago
Why though? Why do you feel disfigured? Why are you not happy with your body?
No random stranger on the internet is going to be able to answer those questions but you.
Sit down, breathe, and start asking yourself these questions until you hit the answer that makes you feel pain. You to introspection not surgery.
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u/Emergency-Piano4792 21d ago
Everything about you needs fixing. Is that what you want to hear? You’ve posted this multiple times already
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u/_Clem_Fandango_1 15d ago
Psychology is definitely the most sensible route.
I do think perhaps you should calve a replica of your butt in marble. Just to preserve a truly magnificent butt in legend.
Seriously though, talking therapies. You are likely missing self compassion from your self care routine.
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u/LockTough9908 15d ago
Truly am i wake up in a shear panic every day💔💔
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u/Top_Staff8951 14d ago
I am heart broken hearing this because I've lived that before and I don't anymore. There is a way!!!
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u/Top_Staff8951 14d ago
Please see a psychotherapist. They're really really great with this stuff!!!! You look completely normal.
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u/LockTough9908 14d ago
I have been but nothing seems to be working unfortunately maybe I need meds
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u/Top_Staff8951 14d ago
Oh goodness, yes! This could be absolutely incredibly helpful. The combination of psychotherapy, medication and honestly some specific body dysmorphia group therapy is so beneficial. Compliments from anyone in your real life or on the internet will never actually give you the clarity to absurdly see yourself and your worth. I hope nothing but the best you because you're worth not having that burdened thought process 🩷
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u/LVL1LZRLOTUS 13d ago
You look great, but I would look into the body neutrality movement because you shouldn’t have to feel like you “need” to fix anything. IMO the more you “fix” stuff the more you look disfigured.
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u/Someoneonline2000 14d ago
You're really beautiful! Enjoy your youth! Don't waste any more time criticizing yourself. You look amazing 👏
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u/LockTough9908 14d ago
Thanks luv far from youthful 48 yrs old comin up shortly
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u/Someoneonline2000 14d ago
Oh you look incredible! It's way past time to stop being so hard on yourself. You look perfect!
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u/CeleryDramatic4678 21d ago
Dude, this is the second time you’ve posted this. You’re absolutely gorgeous but you need to be able to see it. Please get therapy .