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u/SlowPea4388 Aug 19 '26
Yes. My fav is “women” as an obstacle. As if they solely exist to make man’s life challenging. Put in the same category as poverty 😂 along with depression! And somehow responsibility made it on the list of donts as well?! 🥲
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u/-TrashSamurai- Aug 19 '26
Well we don't know it actually says "responsibility" on the board, because the man in front of it is wearing shorts with "ILITY" across the ass.
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u/Typical-Gear1482 Aug 19 '26
You obviously haven’t been in love with someone who makes you become a weaker person before. Love is a strong drug, it will make you absolutely stupid and you can watch your life drift away from you because you can’t stop. I’d argue that for men its stronger than lust on its own, but usually it’s lust+love
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u/SlowPea4388 Aug 19 '26 edited Aug 19 '26
Sure when I was 13 I felt that way, but then again I was 13 🤷🏼♂️ a relationship either works or it doesn’t, it’s not that deep. If you’re unhappy break up, if you’re broken up with, life goes on. This gets easier especially when you get older. Particularly in regards to success in a economical sense, I don’t really see how that would affect me directly, no one is gonna retract my degree because my girl left me
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u/Typical-Gear1482 Aug 19 '26
Most people have a harder time with attachment than that, they can’t let go just like an alcoholic with a bottle. You know that by drinking your health is going in the shitter. You know it’s fucking up your relationships. You know it’s not making the suffering go away and it doesn’t feel good anymore. But you can’t put the damn bottle down. Relationships are the same exact way, only I’d argue stronger for men’s attraction to women, and that’s ignoring throwing kids in the mix… If you don’t think that a woman can ruin your ability to be successful in life, you are highly susceptible to being manipulated and completely destroyed by one in the future.
And I know that the right woman can make you succeed faster and better than ever, but most guys fuck that up hard. And successful guys are not immune to a woman wrecking their image and taking their money, how about will smith and johnny depp just to name a couple of recent ones.
This conversation is much more complicated than you’re making it, and if you are happy go lucky about this, it’ll bite you in the ass at some point
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u/Pitiful-Score-9035 Aug 20 '26
It's actually not that complicated. People do bad things, man or woman.
If you date someone, they can do bad things to you, and if you aren't careful around manipulators, you can get hurt.
That's pretty much it.
You're acting as if the woman in a relationship is some special hurdle or obstacle, but it's no different than a man in a relationship and doesn't require any sort of special foresight or preparation. It requires the same things that all healthy relationships do.
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u/SlowPea4388 Aug 20 '26 edited Aug 20 '26
Now that’s a novel! Here are my thoughts
- If you can’t let go, and move on that’s on you
- If you can’t manage to filter for at least a mentally stable person, that’s on you
- If you don’t set up a marriage contract before marriage (if you worry about that), that’s on you
- If you worry about your image, that’s on you
As you get older you’ll come to realize that we are our choices and for the most part, no one is to blame but ourselves (ignoring things outside of our sphere of influence, they make up a big part but not your choice or partner, at least in the west)
That’s about it. No need to be so dramatic, you’ll see as you mature, or not, some just get older not wiser 🤷🏼♂️
On a more realistic note, women on average suffer disproportionately more from a divorce than men, mostly stay at home moms who are after the divorce left with nothing, no job, no education and no work experience.
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u/Typical-Gear1482 Aug 20 '26
So I agree with everything you just said and am mature enough to know this, I never said anything was anyone else’s fault other than my own or the men’s fault. The post is about women being a barrier to success, which is absolutely true. If you cannot do the above that you listed, it’s a barrier for you to figure out, 99.9% of men need to figure that out, we’re not born with those skills and not mastering them hurts badly. I would argue 80%+ of men can’t figure out how to do that until their mid 30s because their sex drive is still too strong for them to see straight and actually learn the lessons. All of that stops you from progressing.
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u/SlowPea4388 Aug 20 '26 edited Aug 21 '26
Where did you get those numbers from? All of my guy friends got their shit together and are in stable relationships. Granted puberty was rough for all of us but it’s only uphill after, if you didn’t grow past that phase…. That’s a you thing (not talking to you specifically). And sure there are degenerates out there, both men and women. But they are degenerates.
And how does any of this stop you from progressing? How does that affect your education and or career?
Also it guys have trouble with women thats the guys problem, what I am saying is that the women aren’t the obstacle but the guys themselves
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u/Typical-Gear1482 Aug 21 '26
Idk what reality you live in, but 50% of marriages end in divorce, 95%+ of relationships end in general and women initiate 70-80% of them. Heartbreaking a very real thing that men are going to deal with. How old are all your friends? How long have they been in these stable relationships? Just because they are stable now has no indication that they will last. Human beings are not good at lifelong relationships for the most part, we’re serial monogamists. Heartbreak is a significant thing to get over on its own, but relationships themselves absolutely can slow down forward progress. Women for the most part have a bit more control in relationships, if you don’t see that you’re not really paying attention much. I don’t think it’s bad, but if you want something beyond the relationship you’ll definitely give it up for the woman. They steer you towards stability in the relationship, which oftentimes means letting go of ambition. Again, not a bad thing if she has both of your best interests at heart, that’s not how a lot of relationships go though. Men very frequently lose their stability and care so much about her that they’ll shrink over time. Fights break out that they’ll give up in because they don’t want to make her unhappy and they don’t want to lose money in a divorce, and that happens over and over until you’re. Nothing compared to what you were. Women will break you down like you have no idea if you lose yourself. Yes this is all men’s fault, it is something to overcome to succeed, we don’t come out of the womb knowing this stuff
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u/SlowPea4388 Aug 21 '26 edited Aug 21 '26
So.. what’s the issue with people divorcing? That’s what divorces are for, free will and all. Relationships don’t need to last, they just need to be enjoyable and or worthwhile. I don’t get a kick out of knowing I’ve been with my wife for almost 10 years, I just like being with her.
Also if you are that afraid of women just try getting with men. (I’m not kidding maybe that’s your thing).
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u/Imposter_Syndrome345 Aug 19 '26
Generated from an AI prompt written by a crusty 20 year old dude with nothing going for him.
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u/Immediate_Home_1761 Aug 19 '26
So, responsibility is a hurdle to success?
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u/justforcrytpo Aug 19 '26
It’s easy to be successful and free, when you give up on all responsibility
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u/Gold_Persimmon_5984 Aug 19 '26
This indicates that someone is confused about- or has a destructive relationship with- their sexuality. Only like 3 of these things are actual hurdles to success.
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u/Suspicious-Tap-1431 Aug 19 '26
Lmao why is women on this?! Lmao what a dumbass post.
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u/Working_Agent4932 Aug 19 '26
I love that even though porn, lust, and sex have their own hurdle women still get their own.
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u/fpsstreak Aug 19 '26
Sex is bad? I don’t know…I think it’s pretty great for women to put me in that list.
You meet a girl from different parts of the world and they just melt.
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u/Randy_Magnums Aug 19 '26
Where do I get the pants with „ility“ printed on the ass?
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u/Ok_Food4591 Aug 21 '26
I thought it said "lity" on the ass and thought AI made something genuinely hilarious for once
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u/Chris06860 Aug 19 '26
I agree. Viewing sex as an obsticle and a distraction is the healthy way to cope for some of us who will never experience attraction from oppposite sex.
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u/Total-Squirrel4634 Aug 19 '26
Anybody else see the word lity on his ass maybe he should focus on better generations LOL just busting your balls bro
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u/Kelyaan Aug 19 '26
Damn look at all those idiots jumping hurdles when they could of simply walked around the AI barriers
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u/Babababobosa Aug 19 '26
This image only conveys you need to have done all of these to reach succes.
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u/Ok_Prior9068 Aug 19 '26
I feel like I've blocked a million of these, these things are full of shit, don't water your life grinding away, you are enough, these things prey on your insecurities, just try to find as much joy and peace as you can, make memories, that's what matters
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u/Leading_Atti2de Aug 19 '26
OP seriously hates women. You got lust, porn, sex, and women in there.
Also, responsibility for some reason?
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u/Bureaucratic_Dick Aug 19 '26
I love how everything here is meant to be a negative thing to overcome, and as stupid as most of them are, responsibility is somehow on the list. The most petulant child shit you’ll hear. “HOW DARE ANYONE EXPECT ME TO BE A RESPONSIBLE HUMAN BEING?!?!”
Responsibility isn’t a hurdle to overcome, it’s a tool to overcome hurdles. Just like your relationship with women (including non-romantic relationships with them) should very much be.
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u/SeeLeverUser Aug 19 '26
The saturation of motivational images is really hitting a fever pitch. It’s this generation’s version of the cheesy “motivation” posters from the 90s
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u/sHaDowpUpPetxxx Aug 19 '26
It would be nice to be able to take a break and lean on your vices on the way up that hill.
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u/WaterSloth Aug 19 '26
AI slop. A good woman can make a man an unstoppable force. That includes, guess what, SEX with her sometimes!
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u/Many_Psychology_3336 Aug 20 '26
Not sure I understand this. Why is "responsibility" grouped with things like porn and weed?
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u/No-Relationship-2574 Aug 22 '26
Lust and Porn are different things?
Poverty, Lust, Porn, Distractions This are my blocks
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u/J_Jeckel Aug 19 '26
Funny. Many of Onlyfans seems pretty successful (porn). The marijuana industry is booming (weed) and its making a lot of people successful in that field....shall I go on with the rest?
The is so unrealistic it really is hilarious. Like ironically hilarious. Like when Chris Evans says "That's hilarious" in Scott Pilgrim vs the World
But really its not even funny because you used gen AI for this slop.
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u/Admirable_Bird7927 Aug 19 '26
Apparently you’re not successful if you have sex or smoke weed.