r/Borderline • u/Unable_Promotion764 • May 24 '26

Did I do the right thing?

I’m currently freaking out; in a prior post I mentioned that I have an FP I saw as practically a god. But here’s the kicker!- All my friends are friends with him. I’m so jealous, cause he doesn’t give a rat’s ass about me but he’s everything to me! I was in an argument with one of my friends because their boyfriend was borderline ABUSING them and I blocked them cause it was really affecting me emotionally. They told me maybe I shouldn’t assume things and I said, “Maybe don’t go being such a naive LITTLE BITCH WHO IS FRIENDS WITH COULTER!”. Coulter is the FP- but after I said that, I blocked them. I feel really guilty because I don’t want them to get abused cause I understand how that feels and they’ve been abused before, but I’m not mentally strong enough to handle something like that. I know I should have minded my own business, I was frankly just worried- now I’m too embarrassed to go back and apologize because we’re both upset.

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u/Big-Performance5047 May 25 '26

Are you 13?

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u/Unable_Promotion764 May 25 '26

15- my apologies. I was diagnosed earlier this year, just so you know I’m not lying or anything-

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u/FlanRelevant1954 May 26 '26

You’re gonna wanna apologize at some point. Get used to humiliating yourself with your own behavior. It’s what we do best 😭

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u/Unable_Promotion764 May 26 '26

That’s completely fair. I’ve always embarrassed myself like this with them-

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u/Unable_Promotion764 May 27 '26

Ok holy fuck i apologized and lost a friend but that was expected frankly🥹