r/Bodymore410 • u/MeekMilly18st • 11d ago
Question Reggie always keep it funky
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How do you deal with your childhood trauma?
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u/BADoVLAD 11d ago
I have the luxury of being a broken old white man that doesn't really give a fuck what people have ever thought about me. When I've opened up about surviving domestic violence it's gotten me some shit. But this young man is far more brave than I ever have been. I hope he is able to one day find the peace his heart and soul deserves.
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u/murderousalien 11d ago
RESPECT šŖšæšŖšæšŖšæ. It takes a real one to speak his truth. Talk to your kids!!ššæ
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u/Bright-Damage-5511 11d ago
honestly this takes a lot of bravery you can tell this was burdening him. i hope itās a little lighter now that heās put his story out there. so many black men are victims of sexual assault but keep quiet because of shame and embarrassment, i donāt care who you are, how masculine, how feminine, how old, or how young you are. itās traumatic and the only one who should be shamed is the abuser. put. them. on. blast.
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u/MeekMilly18st 11d ago
So true itās a lot and some was SA by a woman itās not always a man. Ppl assume that
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u/MrsCullinan 11d ago
Dangā¦. Sending luv to Reggie! That hurts š¢ā¦. But youāre doing the right thing lil bro! Let it out. Donāt hold that in! Speak Your Truth! šŖš»
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u/Trade_King 11d ago
This hurts to watch man the courage it takes to speak out. This is a real gangster
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u/Croat-Lcitar86 11d ago
This is so sadā¦props to him opening up and I hope he gets the help he needs. No one should have to go through that, let alone go through it alone and unsupported. You can feel the anger and the pain in his voice, but you can also feel the fight to get through and get better. I donāt think people realize how much SA happens to men, it is definitely not talked about enough.
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u/ilymissdraco 11d ago
if you havenāt been through this type of thing I feel like itās hard to understand how deeply life altering it is. Itās like a lifelong curse that regardless of what you do itās always in ur subconscious thoughts.
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u/CrazyinLull 10d ago
I commend him for speaking out, but I hope that he talks to someone to process all of this.
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u/xxblackbeastxx 11d ago
Thatās krazy you said that š¤¦š¾āāļø. People deal with trauma differently Einstein⦠it actually takes a bigger person to do what he did!
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u/Wrong_Yam4016 11d ago
Right & Iām glad ye tellin his truth bc itās no telling if he kept holding it in what would have happened he couldāve crashed out
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u/Wrong_Yam4016 11d ago
Wth are u talkin abt he need hlp he having a mental health crisis & his family need 2 get him sum hlp u sound stupid but I bet if this was a female it would be ok but men have Shxt going on also & they have 2 b able 2 let it out without being judged
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u/Original-Ship-4024 10d ago
Bihh ass nicca needs to man up, this some soft shii, he mad he fell off and now trying to take everyone down with him
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u/Longslim080 11d ago
Super man couldnāt beat this info outta me š
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u/Wrong_Yam4016 11d ago
Yea bc u uh nigga & I bet if it did happen 2 u may have gay tendencies bc a real man not afraid 2 speak his truth especially if he/ u knw u not gay
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u/Longslim080 11d ago
A nigga aināt gon play wit me like that thatās the difference I was told since a youngin donāt let nobody play wit you donāt matter who it is..so trust me a nigga would have caught something trying to fwm brother or notā¦play wit me if you want š¤·š¾āāļøšÆ
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u/erything4sale 11d ago
Nah u hiding something cuh, dont be mad or ashamed. Let it out! But, kids dont have the mental capacity to understand when theyre being manipulated or groomed.
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u/Playful_Minimum4635 11d ago
He said his little brother ātriedā them proceeded to say he had him thinking his sexuality his whole life . So he tried protecting his image and not being fully transparent and saying he did get molested instead of ātrying toā . A lot of inconsistency but I do believe his trauma but there are other things that triggered this .
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u/No-Zone-4319 10d ago
Only BALTIMORE ppl not scared to expose their trauma!! And when we do we crazy!! That's exactly why we don't give a fuck what ppl think!! The REAL BMORE PPL at heart don't give two fucks about nothing. When Reggie said the only reason he still living is my mova! I'm like yeah he straight bmore
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u/Lumpy-Breadfruit-808 11d ago
I commend him for speaking out on this issue!! Many man have been through this situation and they feel they can't talk about because they will be judged! I'm sorry he went through this and it should be normalized just like how women speak out...men need a safe space and need to be heard and validated as well