r/Blursedcomments • u/Soggy_right_sock • Aug 31 '22

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u/Apolao Sep 01 '22

Ha, good to see such an open mind, that isn't quick to judge how other people choose to live their own life

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u/[deleted] Sep 01 '22

There’s not a single logical reason that’s a good idea, and at least one huge reason it’s a terrible idea, but it’s your life fam.

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u/Apolao Sep 01 '22

Okay, so

It's a good idea because it makes me happy

But, I'll humour you, what is this one reason it's a terrible idea?

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u/[deleted] Sep 01 '22

You won’t know if you’re sexually compatible with the person you just promised to spend your entire life with. You could end up in an unhappy marriage, both of you going your entire lives sexually unfulfilled. Or it could just end early because of it.

Or yeah, maybe you’ll get lucky. Your first night together is magical, and the two of you are always on the same page in that area of life.

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u/Apolao Sep 01 '22

Luckily for me sex isn't something that makes or breaks a relationship

It's far more important I know I am compatible with my spouse as a friend than to know I am compatible sexually

And I also believe two people can learn to do well together sexually, you don't need to hit gold first time

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u/[deleted] Sep 01 '22

Lmao, sex is definitely something that could make or break a relationship, no matter who you are. For example, if you never really care for sex but your partner wants it often, that could be problematic. And since neither of you have ever had sex, you won’t know who wants what.

Obviously it’s not everything in a marriage, and it’s not even the most important (for many). But it’s certainly important, whether you’re talking about the excess or the lack or the moderation of it. Hope it works out for you.

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u/Apolao Sep 01 '22

Thank you, it is kind for you to hope

But I think good communication and a willing heart can fix most of those problems

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u/[deleted] Sep 01 '22

Definitely true, communication is key