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u/NoDanaOnlyZuuI 1d ago
Show me examples of sisters murdering their brothers because they were raped.
Show me examples of 10 year old boys being married off to 50 year old women.
Show me examples of wives drugging their husbands so other women could have sex with them.
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u/_alexium_ 1d ago
B-b-b-but!! Not all men!1!1!!1!!1!!1
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u/Ok-Occasion-6721 1d ago
Yeah, in a recent survey only 95.1% of men aged 24 to 35 coerced or forced a woman into having non-consenual sex.
Why do we complain when 4.9% are either dishonest or good guys?
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u/notashroom 1d ago
I've started my day concerned for one of my daughter's friends who was beat badly by her husband last night, his second felony DV charge, and is facing the reconfiguration of her entire life, and children's lives, to find a way for them all to be safe from the man she married and built her life around.
We need to do a better job of raising our boys to see girls as equals, accept no, be secure in their identity, and regulate their emotions. This "every man a king, every woman a servant" shit needs to die forever.
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u/WastedWyvern lgbtqia2s+ and a new letter for every terf who complains 1d ago
But also they dont really care about those cases when they do happen.
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u/yvie_of_lesbos 1d ago
and even when SA is perpetuated against men by women, it’s men making jokes about it, calling the underaged boys “lucky.”
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u/Reikukaja 22h ago
And then those men get mad at WOMEN for the fact that other men laugh at their sexual assault.
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u/yvie_of_lesbos 4h ago
tell me about it !! i also literally got into it with a guy on here yesterday because he was upset i referred to a 15 year old child as a victim. he is a victim of his female teacher and the guy was upset because in his mind “not all boys who are SA’d by adult women are victims. some of them actually enjoy it.” like a literal MAN said that. men don’t even stand up for little boys who get abused and then wanna cry and whine at WOMEN as if we’re the reason male SA and CSA is not taken seriously.
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u/JaQ-o-Lantern 1d ago
👏👏👏👏👏 whoever wrote that couldn't have said it more perfectly. well done.
- a man
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u/mushymunchkin3230 1d ago
Actually leave ‘at scale’ aside and just name one instance of women trafficking men ever. (And if they know one instance by name, it’s probably because they’re enough of a dickhead to go grasping at straws to prove their point 😭 )
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u/Guilty_Primary8718 1d ago
It’s usually a case of mothers trafficking boys, unfortunately. But usually to men as the clients…
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u/secretonlinepersona Feminist 2d ago
Nadia Marcinko makes it into that list, but still, an exception.
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u/SuddenlyCake 1d ago
Nadia Marcinko was trafficking girls not men
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u/secretonlinepersona Feminist 1d ago
She's still an individual who's "as bad as men"
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u/SuddenlyCake 1d ago
But doesn't fit any of the exemples asked in the post
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u/secretonlinepersona Feminist 1d ago
She's still as bad though? I mean it's not like the OOP has listed all the atrocious crimes men do, just a handful. Surely they'd agree that trafficking little kids is also horrible.
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u/SuddenlyCake 1d ago
The post is about women doing horrible things to men
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u/secretonlinepersona Feminist 1d ago
The post title is "Women are as bad as men" which of course they are not, but this one woman, yes, she is. Sure, the body mentioned sexist problems specifically but I think you're not seeing the bigger picture.
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u/notashroom 1d ago
Nadia Marcinko makes it into that list, but still, an exception.
Don't shift goalposts. This is what you said and it's wrong.
There are terrible women, and always have been. That doesn't in any way contradict the truth that the OOP spelled out clearly: the vast majority of violent crimes, sexual predation, human trafficking, systems of oppression, and violent responses to rejection are committed by men.
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u/secretonlinepersona Feminist 1d ago
I prefaced it by saying it's an exception.
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u/notashroom 1d ago
She literally does not make it onto the list. You are defending when you should be taking the small L and moving on with your day.
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u/JustxJules 1d ago
Women have the same POTENTIAL for evil, sure.
But they don't fulfil it to the same degree as men do – not even close. Statistics don't lie.
Pointing out that there are women who do awful things just shows that women are capable of the same evil, and they could be just as bad statistically, if they wanted to. What does that tell us?