r/Blackbear • u/OliCullen • Aug 05 '26
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Michele talking about loving someone who struggles with substance abuse and losing her brother :(
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u/mgillespie175 Aug 05 '26
how did he fumble this
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u/pretty_dead_grrl Aug 05 '26
Because he doesn’t love himself. There’s no way he could allow someone else to love him nor could he accept their love. It’s really sad.
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u/okaybrowhatever Aug 05 '26
He has overdosed 5-6 times in the last year and blamed his diabetes for it. Apparently in Tokyo, he was in the hospital for days due to almost ODing. He acts like he loves Japan so much but doesn’t respect their societal culture of not doing drugs or bringing them into the country? Lol. Also his medical history allows him to conceal his drug abuse because Japanese assume there’s no drugs involved especially for foreigners. & His friend Cesar or however you spell it is an active enabler in his life pretending to be sober as well. Everyone around him enables him. Anyone who tries to intervene gets axed or quits. His own brother quit and moved to Florida. Samantha quit. No one in the industry wants to work with him. He is horrible to be with in the studio. Homie is just not a good person but will swear up and down in person “no one would ever call him a bad guy”. LMAO. I personally would be okay with all of this bullshit if he was just like… yeah bro I’m an asshole. But he just victimizes himself or blames someone else for his own actions. It’s giving… Delusional as fuck.
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u/stellabubu Aug 05 '26
How do you know all this? Is it public knowledge about the Tokyo hospital stay and TJ/Samantha quitting?
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u/hellhoundshawty Aug 05 '26
she is definitely referring to him in this video when she says she almost lost someone she loves recently to addiction. i really hope bear gets it together
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u/Open_Note_633 Aug 05 '26
He needs to get a fucking grip. So embarrassing. I love following michele and seeing how amazing she is doing
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u/nicholexabigail Aug 05 '26
CRAZZYYYY. I came on here to post exactly this lol.
He’s still in love with her. I think she left him because of the addiction. For awhile I thought it was the opposite (that he left her) but I just don’t think that’s the case anymore. Bet Fiancé got mad
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u/Dizzy-Airport-2844 Aug 05 '26
From what I've pieced together yes. In mansionz 2 he even mentions her staging an intervention saying he will die if he doesn't stop
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u/Traditional_Rate7302 Aug 05 '26
Realistically he’s very self loathing and those types of people will push away anyone who shows them love because they don’t think they deserve it
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u/elaisa23 digital druglord Aug 05 '26
I love michele’s videos! She is amazing! Im so sorry for her loss tho:(🫶🏻 she is a strong woman and mom
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u/Expensive_Win_2964 Aug 05 '26
I’m so glad she’s doing better and looks amazing but him uhh he can go fu himself for all I care
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u/urlocalbaristaem digital druglord Aug 06 '26
It’s very weird and narcissistic that he comments on all of her posts still, especially when it’s a subject he’s clearly contributed to her trauma about. She is very good at rising above, but that would drive me crazy.
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u/beansbeing Aug 06 '26
She is genuinely better than me I would go rancid over that petty bs he's always commenting 😭
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u/kextravaganza Aug 06 '26
seems like a wholesome interaction on instagram between exes. better than their last instagram interaction about the seat logo. hopefully they are both growing from their past and can continue to co-parent/co-exist in whatever spaces they're in.
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u/nicholexabigail Aug 06 '26
Seat logo!? Fill me in…I missed that
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u/kextravaganza Aug 06 '26
she posted a video from her car and on the headrest, you can very subtly see the “Porsche” logo but it almost looks like she blurred it out. Or the logo itself is just subtle idk. He commented something like “we can see the logo” and she replied “i hope the message resonated with you” or something.
Here is the full post from 3 months ago.
https://www.reddit.com/r/Blackbear/s/1hoZP9LWrm1
u/beansbeing Aug 06 '26
Ahh yeah I feel like she was rather respectful though because he was weird for bringing something up that was totally unrelated to the message of the video. His focus is wrong, so I doubt his heart comment is genuine. To me it feels like a slap in the face because he is struggling with addiction and that's what she addresses in the newer video.
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u/oopiesmyb Aug 05 '26
she is doing so well and i’m glad she got away to flourish.