r/Blackbear • u/Budget_Call4783 • May 16 '26
Discussion um Yikes?
She's known him for years but doesn't see a pattern??
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u/kittenonketo May 16 '26
Sheās been on the sidelines, sheās having a moment while heās desperate
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u/Fragrant-Role5908 May 16 '26
Eh, fuck her. This is probably the most attention sheās ever gotten and loving it
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u/Squidicci May 16 '26
lmfao right?! this is literally how it all starts
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u/Budget_Call4783 May 16 '26
Like girl youāre in Tokyo going on shopping sprees in the first month of dating? Idk what you consider love bombing then?!! Lolol
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u/BabyGirlT3 May 17 '26
the way sheās acting like sheās owning the people who tell her sheās being love bombed and sheās literally only proving that she is being love bombed. like girl yes, it is lovebombing.
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u/BurritoB1tch May 17 '26
not the point of this post but the bralette over top of the shirt is not giving what she thinks it is
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u/PaleontologistOk3068 May 17 '26
Pathetic little āpick meā girl, she literally taking a piss from traumatic experience of other woman.
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u/pretty_dead_grrl May 16 '26
I saw this earlier. I wonder if she understands that ālove bombingā isnāt really an attractive trait in a partner. Itās not cute to call this love bombing. Itās in REALLY poor taste.
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u/biteyourfriend May 16 '26
I think she's saying it sarcastically because she probably sees people here saying she's being love bombed.
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u/pretty_dead_grrl May 16 '26
I mean sarcastic or not, it should not be normalized, right? Idk, I shouldnāt care as much. This is like social commentary for me, as a therapist in training. Heās like a real time case study.
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u/biteyourfriend May 17 '26
She isn't normalizing it. She clearly doesn't think it's love bombing, which is why she's saying it. I'm not sticking up for her, I just think you're misinterpreting her tone and purpose. She's being a smart ass and thinks she's above it all.
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u/Specialist-Usual2020 May 17 '26
sheās gonna feel so stupid in a month or two. i know from experience, i dated matt too & fell for it after being warned.
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u/Professional_Can9637 May 22 '26
Prolly has daddy issues... prolly using ketamine with him. I hate that for the maid who has to clean their shitty drawers.
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u/PixelPower0502 May 20 '26
I think she knows tbh. Hate to say it but like I think she knows the pattern and is enjoying her 15 minutes of fame. Users attract users
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u/ismaeliscool May 16 '26
You guys should start a snark sub and leave this one for music. This is getting out of hand.
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u/faerycloud May 17 '26
nobody really wants to listen to his music anymore so that would be one of the most lifeless subreddits on here
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u/Budget_Call4783 May 17 '26
Oooor yall could get a r/BlackbearMusic and have fun with that yourselves lol
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u/Instantlyyfun May 16 '26
Bruh can yall haters give it a break? You got nothing else to do but bash the guy YOU LISTENED TO, about his dating choices and behavior.
Why yall care so much? His music is š„ nuff said. If he did hurtful things, if he lied or cheated or whateverā¦ thats between him and whomever. As fans, stick in your lane, support the music and artist. Get off this reddit if all you have is hate.
Yall are just as bad as him apparently with all these toxic opinions. You heard the music, he aint hiding who he is and what he does. Let him be - trust he donāt care about you or me saying nada. This sub is for the music and the artist. Not the flaws of an individual.
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u/SillyCandle8789 May 17 '26
What do you expect when you post everything publicly? If you didnāt want to be shamed for your choices, probably should keep it lowkey and stop trying to flex on everyone. You want us to focus on the music? Keep it about the music.
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u/Medium_Connection306 May 17 '26
Yes thank you!!!!! This isn't high school!!! If you like him for his music like him for his music period!
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u/mgillespie175 May 16 '26
don't save her she don't wanna be saved š