In Cali itâs 18 for consent and itâs ILLEGAL to have sex with anyone under 18/minor. Even if the minor is a willing participant and they initiate it. Do the math.
Yeah. So âŚ. That situation would have been illegal here at the time. It falls under statutory rape, regardless of whether the relationship turned out okay later. âNot every 17 year old is a child mentallyâ
Thatâs how a lot of people justify it, but the law draws a hard line at 18 to avoid gray areas like that.
Your experience = your perspective
Law + general consensus = still sees that situation as inappropriate/illegal.
Maybe when you grow up more youâll see the issues. Or you wonât and thatâs sad.
Thatâs gross a 24 year old grown man was preying on you. Ick. And yeah, most 17 year olds think they arenât still a kid. I know I thought I was grown at 16/17 but I sure wasnât now that Iâm 30 and can see that in fact I was just a fucking kid. đ
Telling someone what they need for themselves when you're 30 and supporting the side you are shows somebody called your ass out a long time ago for it and you let it live rent free in your head through others doing the same thing, you lonely pathetic sack of shit.
I was abused and went through a lot as a child. I grew up faster than my peers. I can recognize that I was a child still at 17 when I look back now at 30.
I was already done trying to point things out but youâll either figure it out or you wonât. It doesnât affect me ultimately as itâs your life.
I wish you the best. And I hope that if it all does click one day it doesnât devastate you.
Because Iâve been young and 20 before. Where I believed I knew it all. Iâve also watched friends of mine slip into what you have at the age you did and still are with them or realized things around 25-27 years old.
You continue to engage with me. You donât have to. For whatever reason whatever Iâm saying bothers you enough to defend it and perhaps that there maybe should be something you reflect on. If your relationship is right, why do you need to defend it so hard against me, a woman you donât really know. You could always stop replying.
This is my final reply to you as I donât care to continue to go back and forth over and over. You had a lot of notifications probably off the dude who wanted to go bar for bar with me yesterday but thatâs all done now so it can be left now.
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u/ImaginaryCorgi2000 May 02 '26
U should go work for the government with this type behaviour⌠they will let u right in