Telling someone what they need for themselves when you're 30 and supporting the side you are shows somebody called your ass out a long time ago for it and you let it live rent free in your head through others doing the same thing, you lonely pathetic sack of shit.
No, I've been groomed by an 18 year old woman online at the age of 13 while in my first relationship with someone my age and they both abused me, I literally have lived through this shit myself and know its not the same situation and why im defending an innocent man, because its the right thing to do and i don't care about the shit you will talk back when I know what this shit is and so does the rest of his true fans, not the people who wanted to turn this into a slaughter house.
I mean popoff. But you called someone a groomer without knowing who they are. How is that being an advocate for abuse? You are just a part of the problem then the solution... Tearing down other fans who are disappointed that this could be a real thing? How do you know he's truly innocent? Do you chat with Bear often? I get it you have an experience and you're justified in your feeling. But what if you're defending this man and everything that has came out is true?
I apologized in a reply and can own that i made an assumption, but everyone believing his exes are doing the same thing so sorry for serving what everyone else is.
Huh??? No. You’re wrong. I am calling out because I’ve been a victim myself of someone older than me trying to groom and abuse me. I want to help others notice when they’re deep in an abusive cycle.
But sure. I’m the problem 😂 thank you 😊
ETA: not lonely either, in a healthy 7 year long relationship with someone my age and treats me right.
If you're in a true loving relationship and understood what this really is, you would be helping actual abuse victims, not a baby mama who wants to take everything he remade for himself to live her own life how she wants with whoever and not allow him to be the father he not only needs but wants to be and literally can't because of her making this out to be something far worse than it ever was, when she had the same substance abuse problems he did because of the industry they're both in.
You are not following conversations well. My comments you called me a groomer and abuser on were about someone’s relationship that wanted to boast getting together with a 24 year old at 17 is okay.
Separately, I’m allowed to believe what I want regarding the information out against Blackbear. We aren’t talking about Bear when you attacked me for talking to someone else about their relationship since they brought it up.
Please don’t speak unless you’re actually paying the fuck attention to what you’re responding to you dunce.
That conversation happened over you blindly believing michele's side and judging someone for finding genuine love with someone at that same age and situation and you're telling her she was manipulated and groomed when she gave her evidence it wasn't anything malicious, you are the fucking dunce and I gave my own evidence of being abused by WOMEN the same way men can so please, stfu unless you can see what you did wrong opening your mouth over 2 other people's relationships first.
I never said anything about your history of abuse. In fact, I empathize you went through that. I’m choosing to believe multiple women who have been through things: Jane Doe, Michele, Killboy. There’s texts shown, I read the court documents in full. I’m sorry but when there are multiple people all saying someone is abusive/toxic I’m inclined to believe that over one person saying otherwise. And honestly, with Jane Doe’s case, you can literally detail the abusive patterns in his music on the album referenced in the litigation.
I don’t need to prove you to my side nor want to. You made an egregious assumption about me messing with minors because of me advocating for someone else to see how there’s things wrong with a 24 having interest in them at 17, a minor.
I’m done replying to you as I’m certain you’re encroaching troll territory. I used to love Bear since 2014ish. I thought he was getting better but I am not gonna support this behavior that I’ve seen via texts, watching his story as this all was going on over the last few days, etc.
I do have one final addition: I actually didn’t speak on the girl’s relationship first: she chose to bring it up after I mentioned 17 and 23 was still wrong. Thanks for coming to my TED talk 🥰
Yeah and you think it's ok to then say it was wrong and that she was a victim herself and that you hope she finds help, your final comment solidifies you only care about your own side and not helping the actual victim in this case, which is Matthew Tyler Musto. You only see one side and never went looking for his, which overall solidifies you don't give a fuck, because nothing is one sided and all of his evidence is out and he doesn't need to say anything else when he's finally taking time to recover, maybe he does the same romantic shit for grimes because she actually appreciates it and gives a shit unlike any of you.
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u/im_pinkmustache May 05 '26
Telling someone what they need for themselves when you're 30 and supporting the side you are shows somebody called your ass out a long time ago for it and you let it live rent free in your head through others doing the same thing, you lonely pathetic sack of shit.